mega19 Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 I just currently broke up with a new boyfriend of 3months..I wasnt happy. Also I dated my exboyfriend for 3 years and I know I am still in love with him but he is the one that broke up with me. So I forced myself to get over him and admit it was finally over...well in the last few weeks we have been talking alot sometimes all day. He admits that he messed up and he broke up with his new girl and wants us to start dating again. He says that he knows he really screwed up and that I am the one that made him happy.Part of me feels like he is really sincere and the other part of me doesn't trust him whether this is because we broke up and he just pushed me away so I am just weary of being hurt again or what I don't know. He admitted that it had nothing to do with me when we broke up that we just wanted different things at the time. I told him that I still loved him and that maybe we could take things really slow and see what happens. I am not sure if this is the right thing to do or not. We were once engaged but then broke it off because I decided we were too young. Unfortunately, I really feel like I belong with him we've tried dating other people, taken breaks and we always come back together. Is this something I should try again because I know I can be happy with him or is it just a waste of time?
Geishawhelk Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 Well, there's nothing to stop you trying again now, but don't expect smooth sailing, unless you've both addressed the issues that broke you both up last time. If a leopard cannot change its spots, then it will be more of the same-old, same-old. If you're ready to risk it, then go ahead. I'd lay down some ground rules, though, if I were you, and if, within a month, you detect no real improvement, then you'll know that inspite of giving it your best shot, some cracks just can't be repaired, and the vase never looks 'as good as new'.....
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