babygirlhausen Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 Ok well there is this guy that i have been friends with for a while he had a girlfriend and juz broke up with his g/f recent ly i want to eventually be more then friends with him wat do i do what do i say please help.......
whichwayisup Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 Do nothing. Allow him time to get over his girlfriend and the loss of their relationship. Be a friend to him, go out and have fun, see a movie etc, but DO NOT open up and tell him how you feel, it's too soon to make a move on him. Respect the fact that he needs time.
Author babygirlhausen Posted February 19, 2009 Author Posted February 19, 2009 Me and him have sex once in a while and he still has sex with her so and i have tried to tell him how i felt about him and it seems like he dont understand or like he is ignoring me....... So now what.......
whichwayisup Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 Ohhh K. He has given you the bullcrap line that he and his girlfriend have broken up, when infact he still is with her, having sex with her. This guy is being selfish and is enjoying two women..You are the OW.. End it and get away from this guy. He's using you and hurting you!
Author babygirlhausen Posted February 19, 2009 Author Posted February 19, 2009 They dont live togather anymore sometimes they talk sometimesthey hangout and have sex........ But there is alot of problems with there relationship.......
Reggie Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 I know what you mean. I frequently have sex with the women I have broken up with. Or, if that is not available, I take a good dump or eat ice cream or pick a nice big bugger out of my nose. I mean, it is just like any other bodily function , right? Nothing significant or meaninful about it. What is the problem? :bunny: I'm good relationship material, dont you think?
norajane Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 Me and him have sex once in a while and he still has sex with her so and i have tried to tell him how i felt about him and it seems like he dont understand or like he is ignoring me....... So now what....... It sounds like you already have your answer. He's not interested in anything more with you than having sex once in a while. A guy who wants more would pay attention when you're trying to tell him how you feel. He's ignoring you. You should start ignoring him and move on to a guy who doesn't ignore you.
Ronni_W Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 They dont live togather anymore sometimes they talk sometimesthey hangout and have sex........ But there is alot of problems with there relationship....... Unless I'm missing something, that sounds exactly like the relationship that YOU are having with him...including the "lots of problems". The thing here is, this is the type of "relationship" that you are choosing for yourself. If it is really what YOU want, and totally satisfies all YOUR needs then it's perfect for you, right? If not...then choose something different for yourself. It's not rocket science!
lovestory5 Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 If you want to be wiht him, you tell him about this. If he still doesn't know that you like him he will never feel this himself. Help him to get to know it. People life is short, use every chance to be happy. Just imagine that today is the last day you have the chance to tell him about this and do this. If you don't you will regret about this forever. There is nothing better than love. Enjoy it. : _) Good luck.
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