wooha Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 She called today, and against my good judgement I answered. To my surprise, she was nice-more nice than she has ever been as long as I've known her. We chatted, she asked how I was and what I had been up to. I asked her the same and she said "Not going to bars". Thats what we pretty much broke it off over. I cracked a few one-liners, and she told me she missed my humor and my cute laugh. I never gave in though, and at the end of the conversation she asked if we could have lunch one Sunday "On her". We have'nt talked in two months, NC on my part. She was mighty sweet on the phone, what do you think her deal is? Also, when we parted company she stated that she "Hoped we found each other together again someday". Maybe she just wanted a little time to go nuts and do as she pleased, then come back when she felt ready to calm down? Maybe the grass is'nt so green after all? I'm not gonna give by the way.
not_a_happy_camper Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 it sounds like she's trying to crawl back in and test the waters. another one who wants to have her cake and eat it too! tread carefully!
wuggle Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 Obviosly she wants back with you. Question is do you still have feelings for her ? good or bad feelings ? do you want her back. Be honest with yourself, no-one else, if the answer is yes give it a go if the answer is no tell her so. If your not sure , ermm , I'm out of advice. Go with your gut feelings, always !? Good luck.
lynne1973 Posted February 20, 2009 Posted February 20, 2009 if the break up was due to her not wanting to take the relationship seriously enough and do her own thing, then i would not bite the bait she is dangling. a little more time has to pass first so she can really feel what its like to be without you and realize the good thing she had. pls don't make it that easy for her. continue NC!
Chrome Barracuda Posted February 20, 2009 Posted February 20, 2009 Go and see what she wants but have no expectations...
Author wooha Posted February 20, 2009 Author Posted February 20, 2009 I do have feelings for her. Very strong. However, this has been the most traumatic experience I've ever endured. I don't want to chance her F-ING w/me. I've made far too much progress to have a setback.
Author wooha Posted February 20, 2009 Author Posted February 20, 2009 Right you are! I maybe would consider it, but now is too soon. I tried to make things right a while back, but she refused(and slept with another fella). It's gonna take some time, and she would have to prove to me she's real. NC will continue.
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