Geishawhelk Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 She's right Mahatma... you called your thread "Extramarital Sex" but you did initially focus on it as an aspect of cheating/infidelity, as opposed to 'swinging'....
Author Mahatma Posted February 24, 2009 Author Posted February 24, 2009 [quote=Mahatma;2051877 This scares me. At the moment, I am 19 and have never wanted to cheat or thought of it. I have never been in a situation though where my wife became uninterested in sex or anything, so I can not say how I would react then, but I would like to assume that I still would feel the same way I do now, and that is that it is a horrible betrayal. No, you asked specifically about cheating an betrayal. Your welcome. Turn it down. Upon the posting of the thread, I was not taking into consideration swingers. If you then would read through the topic and my posts, you would see I came to a sort of revelation. I can not edit the original post. However, the TITLE of the thread says extra-marital sex. That is what I am talking about. I had not thought about swingers until a poster added it. I realize I geared this towards infidelity, but the statistic comes from surveying people about "extramarital sex." Read through whole topics and posts before posting. You're welcome for the tip.
Ruby Slippers Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 It is really sickening to see what goes on with so many people here. If my spouse cheated on me just the betrayal alone would end the relationship. But then what about STDs? Especially here at my college where everyone cheats, we are one of the highest ranked colleges in the country for STDs. When you get married, you should not have to worry about who your spouse is having sex with. I would be so angry at my spouse for even that. I feel the same way. I have never cheated and never will. I also have a policy of 100% honesty in all my relationships. Sometimes I feel that I'm one of the few honest people left, too. Scientific studies are actually starting to isolate genetic characteristics that correlate with fidelity and preference for monogamy versus infidelity. Loyalty definitely feels hard-wired into me (honesty, too). When I love a man, I completely stop viewing other men in a sexual way. This was proved to me when I broke up with my ex five months ago. We were together when I first moved to this city, and I never noticed how many cute guys there are here because I was with him. Now that I'm single again, I notice that they're everywhere!
65tr6 Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 If my spouse cheated on me just the betrayal alone would end the relationship. . not that simple my friend. You could say all you want but when you are actually faced with the situation, you have no idea how you are going to react.
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