Deus_Ex_Machina Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 Okay, Besides losing my girlfriend, I've been highly annoyed for the past few days. When we broke up she told me about what all her friends had to say about me and for the most part it wasn't nice, not at all. Basically none of her friends liked me when I was nothing but nice to them. I feel like a fool because I joked with them and everything. I know I'm not perfect but I think its because they wanted her to be with the guy she was cheating on me on. Her family loved me but her friends hated me. That's not what really bothers me. I know how some people can be extremely immature and catty. What bothers me is that one of her friends thought I was the "F" word. Which is faggot of course. Now, I HATE being called that word for deep personal reasons and not because I am homophobic. It just has a deep, hurtful, dark meaning for me. For the past few days I've been dying to go and knock this guy out of his feet, however I don't want to revert back to my old ways when I would assault people for when I was called that. It just bugs the hell out of me because not only did I lose my girl and found out everyone hates me for no valid reason (not like I treated her wrong) but I was called a faggot by this guy and the fact that he was a apart of the whole reason she cheated on me irritates me. I feel like they're having a victory party while I try and maintain my composure and not put much thought into pitiful non-sense. What can I do? I seriously feel like riding up there and whipping his ass and doing something I'll regret.
Geishawhelk Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 In everything - and this goes for all your threads - shrug it off and don't take the bait. leave her alone, let her wallow in her life. She's your ex. Show her you're bigger than she is, and ignore her. She's obviously not worth it. Is this the ex- you were going to give an ultimatum to? So she's now out of the picture. Big deal. Good riddance. Posted this in your other thread. you seriously have to just drop it, move on and get over it. Work on your self-esteem and self-image. That's where your heart lives, after all.
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