Deus_Ex_Machina Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 Okay, Well my ex always mostly had guy friend and very few girls that are friends. Like normal I was a little jealous but not extremely jealous. In fact I was perfectly fine with the guy friends she had. Things started to bother me when she this tattoo place opened up around her area and she started hanging out there. At first it didn't bother me but then she started telling me that these guys wanted to give her free tattoos, and these guys were telling her obvious stuff to try and get with her. So of course when me and her had our differences she would go to these two guys who she hung out the most in particular and ask for their advice. Of course they would tell her to just end with me etc because they don't know any better of our relationship. To make matters worst the guys disliked me for whatever reason when I was nothing but nice to them. Knowing how guys are I know they'll prey on a girl and try to make her feel like a princess when she's in a quarrel with her boyfriend. So eventually I know one of the reasons why she cheated on me had to be because of the influences of the guys most of whom are much older then her (she's 21 the guys in their mid 30's early 40's). Is this a possibility?
Geishawhelk Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 In everything - and this goes for all your threads - shrug it off and don't take the bait. leave her alone, let her wallow in her life. She's your ex. Show her you're bigger than she is, and ignore her. She's obviously not worth it. Is this the ex- you were going to give an ultimatum to? So she's now out of the picture. Big deal. Good riddance.
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