kirk205 Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 I have been dating a girl for 2 weeks. On the fifth date we got hot and heavy on the couch, all clothes stayed on, but there was no sign they wouldn't be off within a few minutes. We were both wearing jeans and I haven't dry humped in 15 years, being into it I didn't notice anything till it was too late. I rubbed too hard on my pants and was raw around my tip. I slowed things down we hung out for another 2 hours. The incident happened on Monday night, she called last night to set up a date for Friday. She didn't say anything about what happened, and I didn't mention anything. Should I tell her what happened? I've been talking with friends and everyone thinks she probably thinks I'm gay or a quick draw. Thanks for the help
kashmir Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 Don't sweat it. It's happened to me before, and I doubt the girl noticed. If she really judges you based on something like this then she's worthless anyway.
prettybaby Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 I'm pretty sure she didn't even notice. Don't mention it.
Charles1978 Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 I had this exact thing happen to me a couple years ago. The dry humping went on and on and on. I was wearing jeans. She was wearing some pajama pants. We ended up having sex, and let me tell you... that was the most painful sex I have ever had in my life. It was excruciating. The next day I realized that she had worn off some of the skin and even caused bruising. It is something I will definitely avoid in the future. The next day I told her I was in pain, but we just laughed about it. I wish you a speedy recovery.
Lucky_One Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 She didn't notice. I am not sure why she would think you were gay? Were you moaning a guy's name? And if she thought you were a quick draw, then there would have been evidence of ejaculation, right? I remember that happening in college, but it was pretty obvious by his actions and behavior that he had cum. It wasn't a big deal to me, we had a little smile over it while we snuggled on the couch afterwards. If she thought you were gay or suck in bed, then she wouldn't have called to see you again. Give the pecker a rest, though, so it is all healed up by Friday!
chris250 Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 If nothing else encourage her to get a pregnancy test done. Yes she can get pregnant by humping through clothes, sheets or anything else. I'm just assuming you all humped because you thought it was safer sex.
surgngnl Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 Aw, don't worry about it. Trust me, she didn't even notice anything was off. In fact, she probably likes you even more now that you stopped the make out session. She probably thought you were being respectful and under control. Us chicks like that.
Surfer Dude Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 Aw, don't worry about it. Trust me, she didn't even notice anything was off. In fact, she probably likes you even more now that you stopped the make out session. She probably thought you were being respectful and under control. Us chicks like that. Yes, I do understand there are a lot of low self esteemed chicks who hate sex and hate romance and fun, and who will do anything to destroy any connection and chemistry between people. Since when is not having sex being respectful to anyone? What kind of twisted logic is this?
CandyGirlXO Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 She probably thought you were being respectful and under control. Us chicks like that. Agree here 100% We do love that.
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