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Asked two girls out on dates...didnt go as well as i hoped


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I asked two diffrent girls out in the past 3 days to do something like food or what not. Didnt turn out the way i wanted it to. They both basically said that they would like to stay single and just see what pops up. it seems a lot of girls in my college or college in general have eaither a BF or just dont want to date and are into the one night stand type of deal. Looks like ill have to find a girl not in my college or maybe college at all!?

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Nah, it's the same outside of college. Chicks are flaky and change their minds all the time. Just go with the flow. If a chick that wants ONS, bang her. If a chick doesn't want to date, shrug and hit on her friend.

 

Just keep doing what you're doing. Keep going through women, some you'll have sex with, some you won't, and one day, you'll find a GF.

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they would like to stay single and just see what pops up

 

First, thats a nice way of saying no. It's basically a variation of 'its not you, its me', but theyre just not interested.

 

No one want to just be alone forever. Sure, maybe they arent looking to get married, but they wouldve gone out for food if they felt a spark. They didnt, thats the way dating goes.

 

Be prepared for this to happen 90% of the time throughout your entire dating career. This happens to me all the time, dont take it personally.

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It's only 2 girls. Look at it like baseball, a .300 batting average (or 3 successes out of 10) is really good when it comes to asking out women. Most guys would take 1 or 2 out of 10 successes.

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Doesn't mean they're into one night stands or don't want a bf.

 

Means they aren't interested in something else... prizes for guessing what they don't want.

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