brit5babe Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 Hi i've been with my bf 6 yrs now (i'm now 28 he's 31). Everything is great - he is my best friend and we get on great and i can tell him anything. I still find him very attractive but for a few months now he hasn't turned me on anymore. I find myself making excuses to not have sex. When we do do it i do orgasm but it takes him ages to get me turned on enough so most of the time i just resort to using lubricant. I try to guide him to do things i like but he gives it a few mns then goes back to his way of doing it which doesn't really do anything for me. I never used to think about other people but recently have been fantasising about other people and get turned on pretty quick. He is a great bf and i don't thin k i'd meet a better guy but i'm worrie he isn't the one. I'm not stressed or on medication so i just dont get why it has happened. Any advice would be very welcome. Thanks for reading
Geishawhelk Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 Are you in love with him, or do you just 'love' him? Sexual incompatibility is a huge issue, and you need to discuss this with him, but if you're unsure of how you even feel about him, it may be part of a bigger problem.
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