DontWannaBeAlone Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 If you’re dating a guy who has cheated on you and then dumped you for the girl he cheated on you with, then is it okay for him to hang out with that girl as long as he promises not to do anything, or do you have a right to ask him not to hang out with the girl?
gwynieatpain Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 OMG. You are talking about a guy who cheat on you and leave you for that girl. Isn't that obvious enough? Sweetie. Listen. Plain and Simple. Nothing you need to care about since you guys are done!
Author DontWannaBeAlone Posted February 18, 2009 Author Posted February 18, 2009 OMG. You are talking about a guy who cheat on you and leave you for that girl. Isn't that obvious enough? Sweetie. Listen. Plain and Simple. Nothing you need to care about since you guys are done! Obviously not, since he's my boyfriend...
SoulSearch_CO Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 I think if he was half a man and interested at all in rebuilding the trust, he'd offer not to hang out with her. Yeesh. This is a messy situation. I really would not have given him the option of coming back after dumping me for the one he cheated on me with. But since you have - yes, you have every right to ask him not to hang out with her. If he throws a fit about it, tell him he must not be serious about rebuilding things with you and you can find better men out there (really - you can).
gwynieatpain Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 Obviously not, since he's my boyfriend... Sorry there I guess I've totally misunderstood. You guys get back together right? I agree with soulsearch. He should know what to do to rebuilding trust. Personally I have zero tolerance with cheater, and it is wrong wrong wrong to hang out with that girl again! Really. I wish you for the best.
Island Girl Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 I think if he was half a man and interested at all in rebuilding the trust, he'd offer not to hang out with her. Yeesh. This is a messy situation. I really would not have given him the option of coming back after dumping me for the one he cheated on me with. But since you have - yes, you have every right to ask him not to hang out with her. If he throws a fit about it, tell him he must not be serious about rebuilding things with you and you can find better men out there (really - you can). I agree with all of the above wholeheartedly. Especially the part where it was pointed out that you can do better. Because yes, really you can.
collegekid491 Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 .... no..... just... no. He knows the answer as well, he's just trying to pull some power move. You are MORE then justified saying no, if he disagrees its blatantly obvious what his intentions are. If he puts up even a little fight, and I mean even a eye roll, he's just looking for drama by opening a old wound on you.
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