Brittanyxo7 Posted February 17, 2009 Posted February 17, 2009 Okay so heres the scoop. My friend and i have been really good friends since this summer we hung out all the time. She now has a boyfriend who she has being seeing for a month.I used to get jelous of her because she get the guys and i dont usually.But i am veryy veryyy happy for her because she deserves him. The problem is, She goes to school and has an intership but lives in philly with her mom so i dont really get to see her a lot. And when shes not busy she spends her spare time with her boyfriend. She use to call me a lot and we'vve tried to make plans but ended up not hanging out. She has to bring him everywhere and I havnt seen her and just want to hang out with her its not that i dont like him she thinks that im jelous because i dont have anyone and hate to see her together with her boyfriend all lovey dovey. ( I will admit a little bit ) But i just want to hang out with her and now we've gotten in a huge fight about it and i dont know what to do because i miss her and now she proably hates me because i had a boyfriend for a little bit but cancled when we were suppose to hang out and she thought that was the reason because my boyfriend wasnt going to be there i just didnt want to be the fourth wheel hanging. Help me please!!!!?????
Lucky_One Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 Have you really really talked to her? (With punctuation?) This sounds like a very common problem that crops up in young women; they get caught up in new loves, and they sort of "forget" their girlfriends. It typically resolves itself as the newness of the man wears off, and as the girl grows up and matures and realizes what a treasure her girflriends are in her life. I would talk with her. Not text her, not FB her, not write on her wall - but talk. Old-fashioned talking over ice cream if you can do it face-to-face, or on the phone or you are too far away. Good luck!
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