Karvinrules Posted February 17, 2009 Posted February 17, 2009 This is kind of long- Backstory: Her and I went to high school together, but we never met until the summer after I graduated. We hung out once with a couple that we were both friends with. Then I went off to college, she was a senior at my old school then. Around Thanksgiving we started talking via text, AIM, and facebook. We hung out once on winter break. I ended up leaving school early 2nd semester and came home. We only hung out another time before she was busy with sports/college apps. Then she got a boyfriend and I stopped talking with her. They broke up around May so we hung out a couple times during the summer, then she went to college. We lost touch again. Then she left in the beginning of 2nd semester and came home. As it stands now: We've seen each other a few times since then. We made plans for a few days before Valentine's then she asked to move them to Valentine's night and said we could go to her dad's since he won't be there. Turned out he was there so we went to my house. We've gotten along better than any girl I've met before, tons of inside jokes, make good eye contact, we can chat about nothing for hours, and I make her laugh a ridiculous amount. I also mentioned that I liked her hair when it's down natural, on Valentine's she showed up with her hair like that. We've only hung out about 20 times over a year and a half. I've never made and move on her really, just a touch on the leg or a hug (only recently). We hang out and sit right next to each other on my couch, I thought she was giving me the kiss me look but we had spent a good amount of time talking about a semi-friend of ours trying to get with her. So I didn't go for it. I think she is waiting for me to do something, or is playing coy. I mean she never pulled away or was awkward for hugs or the touch on the leg. I think she just acts a little disassociated as part of a game. She also mentioned being asked out by 2 people and telling them she didn't want a relationship. She made me a massive cookie, frosted it, and wrote a joke on it, to make up for changing plans on me once. I made her a fake/joke children's book, then recently I made an awesome Valentine's card for her. It took 14 hours and looked professionally made (I'm thinking about graphic design for a carreer). I got a great reaction for both of the things, especially the card. She was noticeably blown away. Saying things like, "You really went all out on this" and "It's perfect" "I can't wait to show people." After the card she initiated the hug when she left, which was a first. So does she seem to like me? Should I ask her out on an official date? I would like to get into a relationship. Thanks for some help!
sand26 Posted February 17, 2009 Posted February 17, 2009 There is really only one way to know bro. I once got some advice that stuck with me. "Women are the fruit on the end of the branch and as the branch extends it gets thinner. So to get the fruit you must go out on the limb, out where it is brittle and may snap. You may fall you may not, but you will never get the fruit hugging the trunk." Try to kiss her next time she gives you the look. good luck the mfk
anotherworld Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 Well of COURSE she likes you! I used to only play the "friends" thing because I thought it was more polite to girls... I ended up having a ton of girl-friends that a) I would/could never kiss and b) never date. And then, soon, you just stop being friends once you all go your separate ways. If we don't act fast, she'll be over it soon. Whatever happens out of it, at least it will be fun. Just be careful you don't get caught into something too serious too fast.
Author Karvinrules Posted February 18, 2009 Author Posted February 18, 2009 Great! Thanks for the responses. All of you seem to think she does like me, which is what I was leaning towards. I guess I'll bite the bullet and ask her on an official date, look for an opening and go for it.
collegekid491 Posted February 18, 2009 Posted February 18, 2009 You old dog! K, all you guys who have no creative flare should be taking notes! She's definitely into you man, and if she's not... well she is, so no 'if'! Just make your move and strike while the iron is still hot!
Author Karvinrules Posted February 20, 2009 Author Posted February 20, 2009 So, hey it's a 'No'. I asked her and got "Well I would, but I'm kinda hanging out with someone". F*cking bullsh*t...
anotherworld Posted March 3, 2009 Posted March 3, 2009 Seriously? Well that sucks. Don't ever talk to her again now.
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