GroupFitness Posted February 17, 2009 Posted February 17, 2009 Ok somebody please riddle me this. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. Our sex life burns on low heat , the fireworks has died down, but overall, it is still satisfying. Valentine's night, I bursted out my victoria secret lingerie. Thong, garter belt, heels and all. He was excited and seemed impressed, we were able to get things started but Mr. "Wanker" couldn't stay up to finish the race. He just slowly went to sleep. The thing is, this is not the first time this has happened. Whenever I get dressed up for him, he can't perform. I don't get it. At first, I thought it was me but then I realized I'm not grotesque looking, I'm 5 8", 135lbs, and I look damn good in and out of lingerie if I may say so myself:p. So what's with the stage fright? The first few times, I thought it was because we had just started dating. But it's going on 2 years now and we live together so where does that anxiety come from? Other times he's fine, he's especially fine in the morning (if you get my drift) but the moment I put my gear on to treat him to something special, he freezes. He is the one that is ALWAYS asking me to dress up, he swears up and down that it's hot and he likes it. I don't do it often but the few times I do. His thing refuses to work. And oh, he doesn't know why. Can anyone shed any light on this please?
Geishawhelk Posted February 17, 2009 Posted February 17, 2009 He has "performance anxiety". Don't jump on his back about this. He's anxious enough as it is. If he needs help, you should discuss this together, but don't lay down any ultimatums or conditions. That will make things worse.
sand26 Posted February 17, 2009 Posted February 17, 2009 He has "performance anxiety". Don't jump on his back about this. He's anxious enough as it is. If he needs help, you should discuss this together, but don't lay down any ultimatums or conditions. That will make things worse. I agree with Geisha. Even the greatest of actors forgets his dialogue sometimes. This is relatively common among men, now if it becomes an everyday issue, then a doctors visit is in order.
Enema Posted February 17, 2009 Posted February 17, 2009 When you get dressed up, maybe you're so hot that he gets worried he's not good enough for such a knockout, and... droops.
fishtaco Posted February 17, 2009 Posted February 17, 2009 See a doctor? Could be a medical condition.
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