stovepipe Posted February 17, 2009 Posted February 17, 2009 I'll sum it up quick. After the breakup I went to the doctor for a routine checkup...they noticed something abnormal with my heart and I've been seeing specialists and what not. Last Tuesday is when she decided that being friends won't work and I agreed with her, I had a doc appointment Friday and she knew this. She texted me 4 times on friday asking me if I was ok...none of which I responded to. I don't feel she deserves to know about me or my health. I'm dealing with this on my own and with my friends at this point. Today at work she emails me asking me if she can at least know if I'm ok or not. I didn't respond again. Should I respond? Honestly I don't feel like she needs to know anything, she's dating someone again, says hes amazing...all that crap. I sit close to her at work and she talks about it loud enough for me to hear. Knowing that it hurts me. I'm just angry at this point, but part of me thinks she should know about my health because she does say she cares but most of me just wants her to leave me the F alone.....
redmelon Posted February 17, 2009 Posted February 17, 2009 I agree with you, you don't owe her anything, and it's not her business anymore. Nothing will be changed by letting her in on your health issues, except maybe some half a*s*s sympathy. Who wants that?!
Author stovepipe Posted February 17, 2009 Author Posted February 17, 2009 I got 3 more emails after her initial email today. I responded to none of them. Then I got a text message saying "Ok I get it. I guess I deserve this". Yes, she does deserve this.
openbook08 Posted February 17, 2009 Posted February 17, 2009 absolutely do not respond to her NONE OF HER BUSINESS hope youre feelin better & its nothin too serious X
Author stovepipe Posted February 17, 2009 Author Posted February 17, 2009 I really hope her "getting it" means that she won't contact me again. As much as I wanted things to work out with us, and as much as I hurt because of her, she is not doing me any good. The added stress of what she did and what she is currently doing only makes whats wrong with me worse.
BCCA Posted February 17, 2009 Posted February 17, 2009 Ok I get it. I guess I deserve this Boo-hoo. This is a guilt trip. Ignore her completely.
Author stovepipe Posted February 17, 2009 Author Posted February 17, 2009 It would be a guilt trip if I didn't feel that she did deserve it. She probably still thinks I'm the weak little pathetic person that was so upset about our breakup that I'd have let her walk all over me and I'd come back for more. You can't lay a guilt trip on someone when you do nothing but talk about the new wonderful guy you're with to anyone that will listen. When I'm just an earshot away. So ignorant, so cold....it was when she started doing that that a flip switched and I just got angry. Yeah it still hurts to hear it, my stomach sinks and I just want to get up and leave....but then anger takes over and I turn my headphones up even louder.
Author stovepipe Posted February 18, 2009 Author Posted February 18, 2009 Now she's tried IMing me. I guess I'm going to have to block her name on instant messages too. She said "[sIZE=3] I understand if you dont want to be my friend but please just tell me that is what you want." Guess what...I'm not giving her that satisfaction. [/sIZE]
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