BobSacamento Posted February 20, 2009 Posted February 20, 2009 Um. I would. 20 bucks to have a homely girl sit on my lap? Maybe you think that is a good time buddy, but I would rather do a lot of other things. Like....ah....um... have sex with a woman, for free. I hate it when people say crap like this. I once had a girl say that if a guy didn't find every female "flower" gorgeous then he was gay. Later that night I found why she said this. It was a disgusting mess down there and she was trying to justify to herself that it wasn't her flaw. Maybe this poster, bobsacamento, spends a lot of time paying to have girls sit on his jeans and doesn't want that experience to be demeaned. Well sorry Bob. Paying an ugly girl to sit on your lap does not make you straight, it makes you lonely and in need of attention. sorry bro. good luck dude, the mfk I never said anything about paying for one.
voldigicam Posted February 20, 2009 Posted February 20, 2009 A possibility would be to go. Pretend to get tipsy. Laugh lots, make a fuss over the strippers, tip them, clap, get chummy, get a lap dance. There's very little possibility the subject would come up again.
Miss Ting Posted February 20, 2009 Posted February 20, 2009 Show me a man who would turn down a lap dance at a strip club and I'll show you a homosexual. Not true. 70% of the men I know find it pointless and they are far from gay.
Aries77 Posted February 20, 2009 Posted February 20, 2009 I would HATE it if my man would go to ANY form/shape of strip club...why should he have to go there if he has YOU??? I would definitely be upset, but that is just my personal opinion. Sure, as everyone has said, strip clubs can be trashy, where the women just want the money and the guys just want to shoot the breeze. But can't they do it in just a regular bar? Why a strip club? How would your boyfriend feel if you went to one? (with GUYS stripping) Ask him and see how he would react. That's what I would do...good luck.
tincanman99 Posted February 20, 2009 Posted February 20, 2009 You have a right to be upset and or annoyed by it. If you really dont want him to go you need to make that clear to him and tell him that you feel disrespected by it. That being said all I dont personally care for strip clubs as they generally on the seedy side of things and the women are only after you money. seedy and the women really are after your money. The women in reality range from ugly washed up ho's to supermodels. Dont kid yourself that the women are all homely and ugly - THEY ARENT. Many are actually very attractive and strut their stuff. They know exactly what buttons to push with a man. On top of this they are hardly innocent. The women are very, very frisky at times. Yeah some are just lap dances where the guys are not allowed to touch but some are full contact where you can grab their butt, their breasts and almost anything else. Just as a sidenote, any man that says he does not enjoy looking at naked attractive women is a pathological liar. All men like to look, for those guys that say they dont - get over it already. My friends used to spout this nonsense to their wives and almost had them believing it that they never look at other women. Yeah sure and I have a bridge to sell you too. Like I said before just tell him you dont like it and why and see what he does.
gopher Posted February 20, 2009 Posted February 20, 2009 The few work related times I've gone to strip clubs, they remind me of a Las Vegas casino. 1. No one is smiling or having fun. 2. They are filled with smoke. 3. Most people there are parting with money that they can't afford to. Finally, they are way overrated for entertainment and actually are pretty boring unless you like getting a erection that you have to take home with you. Not my cup of tea....and hopefully your b/f honors what you ask of him.
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