Daveee Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 I' about 3 months out of a long-term relationship (which was about 2.5 years long), and my game is admittedly really rusty, so hang in there with me. I met a girl about a month and half ago. We've hit it off really well. We talk almost every day and see each other a few days a week. There's a lot of touching between the two of us, laughs at everything I say, and shows other subtle signs of attraction, but we haven't had a kiss yet...which doesn't make me 100% sure about the next step. Today she was telling me about how her friend was approached by a guy who she had no interest in and he told her he wanted to be "more than just friends." Although her friend wasn't interested, my lady friend thought it was "cute." I know that it's pretty much seen as a "no-no" to straight up admit your feelings for someone. All of the mystery goes away and her chances of reciprocating feelings all but disappear, for the most part. But it seems like she's dropping me some sort of hint here, or I may be reading into things too much. How should I approach this?
Oliveman Posted February 16, 2009 Posted February 16, 2009 Well seems to me like you should kiss her instead of telling her you want to be more than friends or something along those lines. Women like romance, and there's nothing romantic about asking for a kiss. If the attraction and interest seems to be there just do it. You have nothing to lose. Physical chemistry plays a big part in a relationship, and if you feel like you're kissing your sister when you kiss her it's a bad sign for how things will work out. Just go for it and see what happens.
prettybaby Posted February 16, 2009 Posted February 16, 2009 Seriously, just kiss her. Words don't mean sh*t without actions. She may think it's cute, but then what? Will she kiss you? Doubt it! Will you kiss her? Well, in both cases, you'll have to anyway. So I think you should just kiss her and not tell your feelings out loud just yet. I personally think it kind of ruins it. I know what you mean though; I was in the same situation where we would date for a long time and the kiss just wasn't coming. At the end I just felt like making a bold love confession. I'm glad I didn't lol It would have put so much more pressure on the kiss thing. So yeah: kiss her kiss her kiss her
Recommended Posts