Mimic Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 I know it's cheesy to ask others to tell phrases that yo can tell a girl, but I need help in this department. I am going to see a girl for the first time in a couple of weeks. We met over the Internet, but through a common friend. She lives in the US, I live in Paris. Our chat sessions have left me with the impression that she likes me. I want to tell her something nice (all in a combo package) about her beauty, can you all help me please? I have been looking in the web but find only expression of love and don't want to scare her away by telling her I love you...
carhill Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 Sure. "I have to meet you. I don't know why I feel this way but I do." Then, buy a plane ticket and go. It's a short flight (by my standards). Nothing says serious interest like getting on a plane And, yes, I've done it, numerous times.
Author Mimic Posted February 15, 2009 Author Posted February 15, 2009 the problem about this is I am just starting a new job, I came from Costa Rica about two weeks ago to start it. She is coming to Paris in march. After I still have the time to go over there. This is how I met her, she told a buddy of mine she was going to Paris, and he told her about me, living there. He gave her my info, so she could come in touch with me so she knows somebody here, to go out with etc...
carhill Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 Then, IMO, keep the romantic stuff to yourself until she arrives. Be friendly and show interest, but no romantic stuff. Romance is an in-person kind of thing. Pace is very important. A month isn't long. Too fast and it'll blow up. I've had that happen too
Author Mimic Posted February 15, 2009 Author Posted February 15, 2009 Well that's the point, right now I am just joking with her. Nothing serious... I just want to have some nice ideas of something to tell her, once she is here. A few ideas would be best, so maybe I can piece something of my own together.
carhill Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 IMO, the LS ladies will give you a better answer but, IMO, I would not "plan" anything. IME, meeting long distance "loves" in real life is very different, even if good, than the experience of knowing them online/over the phone. What you feel may (IMO will) change. Figuring out in advance the perfect thing to say would be getting the cart before the horse. IME, women value sincerity and spontaneity. Being honest about how you feel in the moment is very valuable. "I'm so happy I can show you Paris. It truly is a city of love"
Author Mimic Posted February 15, 2009 Author Posted February 15, 2009 Ok, so I'll wait to hear from the ladies, not planning really, just never find out what to say in those moments, so I'd like to have some ideas, I just ask to help me have a base where I can start off
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