Peter_pan Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 ok to cut a long story short. been a year ,heard nothing, saw her at ex mass, had a go at her for doing what she did, i emailed a month after that when drunk. and asked if it was still her email. next evening i pick up an email from her bf... and i deleted it. now im thinking **** maybe i should have read it. kind of want to know what the chump had to say views?
Tony T Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 She's got a boyfriend. He probably told you to kiss off and not to Email his gf. So take his advice...and totally forget her while you're at it. What do you have to profit from thinking about the past? Don't use Email when you're drunk!
northstar1 Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 ok to cut a long story short. been a year ,heard nothing, saw her at ex mass, had a go at her for doing what she did, i emailed a month after that when drunk. and asked if it was still her email. next evening i pick up an email from her bf... and i deleted it. now im thinking **** maybe i should have read it. kind of want to know what the chump had to say views? No, you don't wanna know that Peter, because nothing he said is going to do you any good. Ask yourself, what could the note possibly have read that would make you feel any beter? Think about it. You did the best thing by deleting it.
D-Lish Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 She's got a boyfriend. He probably told you to kiss off and not to Email his gf. So take his advice...and totally forget her while you're at it. What do you have to profit from thinking about the past? Don't use Email when you're drunk! Yes, What TT said. He was only going to say get lost. Past is gone, move on.
Citizen Erased Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 Email him back and find out. I'm curious as to what he said.
Storyrider Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 Email him back and find out. I'm curious as to what he said. Ha ha! I was going to tell him to check his Trash Can.
Citizen Erased Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 Ha ha! I was going to tell him to check his Trash Can. I thought that too but maybe he'd already emptied it? We're probably horrible but I'm okay with that.
Storyrider Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 We're probably horrible but I'm okay with that. Learning to love yourself is a sign of emotional maturity.
Saint Valentine Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 Learning to love yourself is a sign of emotional maturity. In that case, I have matured fully. This is the end of the road, but it's an excellent picnic spot. I guess I could be here for a while, and who better than me to share it with.
Storyrider Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 I guess I could be here for a while, and who better than me to share it with. Is that a rhetorical question? Maybe someone to share an inside joke with, or a meaningful glance. It isn't as satisfying knowing you're quick enough to catch your own innuendos.
Saint Valentine Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 Maybe someone to share an inside joke with, or a meaningful glance. You're so right. Maybe I have room to love somebody almost as much as myself. The boyfriend would only send an email if he felt threatened. Or she asked him to send it, because she wanted him to feel a little jealous. Either way, where there's smoke there's fire.
Storyrider Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 I was thinking maybe the boyfriend was drunk emailing too, in which case you're both better off that the email got deleted.
Author Peter_pan Posted February 15, 2009 Author Posted February 15, 2009 yeh true, i did empty the trash already/. maybe he did feel threatened, also she must have told him i emailed her because she could have just deleted it or not said anything to him at all/ so what do you mean there is not smoke without fire. yeah have been tempted to write back asking him to send it again lol i know i wont gain anything from anything. i just think the whole situation is strange. i feel he was a rebound and it just went to far and he ended up growing on her. since back in the early days they did break up twice over trust issues. and she was sniffing around when she came back to my town and asked a mate of mine if i was going back up there. then again she was probably only asking over me to feel less guilty, so by her knowing i was ok and happy she wouldnt feel like a bitch.
foxh1234 Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 Hey PP, shes got a BF bro, forget her. What she does and with who is none of your business anymore. She is living her life and your still doing the what if thing. You have re hashed every scenario and you are still without her and she is with him. I know it sucks man but that's life. As I have said many many times, your young, move on and forget her. You will meet someone who will love you and never leave you. The world is yours, forget this one.
Author Peter_pan Posted February 15, 2009 Author Posted February 15, 2009 yeh man i hear ya, just annoyed that i pushed her away and didnt deal with my depression ocd etc. i blame it a lot for my lack of happiness whilst with her. i just know things would have been great if i could have known the way i would feel about her by not having her and to know that there isnt anyone else id rather be with at the time she had been my only serious gf so had nothing to compare to and always wondered what if... she was a keeper and i lost it. yeh i will have to just roll on, i dont think ill ever let it go though deep down ill always love her. which sucks cause i dont think i'll be capable of loving again. i feel like it is my fault that we lost touch. she continued to txt me when it ended and i ignored to do "NC" then after 2-3 months of silence i txt her and never heard a peep. so i feel responsible for the way i handled it once it was over. i just wasnt strong enough and to bitter towards her to stay in contact or remain civil friends on mutual ground its because of this that i feel that when her 3-4month thing with him ended if i had stayed in touch and showed her the better me then there could have been a chance to get back again.
foxh1234 Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 yeh man i hear ya, just annoyed that i pushed her away and didnt deal with my depression ocd etc. i blame it a lot for my lack of happiness whilst with her. i just know things would have been great if i could have known the way i would feel about her by not having her and to know that there isnt anyone else id rather be with at the time she had been my only serious gf so had nothing to compare to and always wondered what if... she was a keeper and i lost it. yeh i will have to just roll on, i dont think ill ever let it go though deep down ill always love her. which sucks cause i dont think i'll be capable of loving again. i feel like it is my fault that we lost touch. she continued to txt me when it ended and i ignored to do "NC" then after 2-3 months of silence i txt her and never heard a peep. so i feel responsible for the way i handled it once it was over. i just wasnt strong enough and to bitter towards her to stay in contact or remain civil friends on mutual ground its because of this that i feel that when her 3-4month thing with him ended if i had stayed in touch and showed her the better me then there could have been a chance to get back again. This is my whole point right here PP. Woulda, coulda, shoulda, does you NO GOOD!!! You need to forget the past, we all made mistakes, we can't change them. Learn from them and carry your new found knowledge into the next relationship. You will be better for this.
Author Peter_pan Posted February 16, 2009 Author Posted February 16, 2009 i cant live with myself knowing she was the one i have to "learn" from i feel i was to hard on her for the break up. but i was pure angry and feeling betrayed; i only had a go at her because i kept it in for so long i just had to get it off my chest, just purely because she told me about her new guy when i was on holiday through an email
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