hdog Posted February 14, 2009 Posted February 14, 2009 Hi im 19 and i live with my girlfriend of 4 years. i have been unhappy with where my life is for a while now and slipping into a depression. ive been blaming everything on my depression except her but the other day i began to understand that to change my life is the only way to be happy and i think that means leaving her. I wouldnt know what to do because we live together about 2 hours away from out families and there is still about 3 months left before school ends. Do i tell her now? or wait? i still love her and i cant even imagine what my life will be like without her and to see her sad would just kill me she is one of the most amazing people i have ever met but from 15 to 19 we just changed to much and grew too incompatible. we fight all the time and barley ever have sex. i know its the right thing to do for both of us. she wants to get engaged soon too!! she did bring up the fact that we might have to break up if things kept going the way they were going. but our relationship was the kind that withdrew from our friends untill we had a couple close ones.. we did everything together to the point i felt weird when i went out with out her...and then we mooved away to college and we have no one but ourselves and id feel horrible about leaving her because id go back home and i dont think she would. please someone help its valinetines day and im contemplating breaking up with someone 6 months ago i thought i was gonna spend the rest of my life with
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