A lover or a friend?

[Princess_Vixxen]

Hey everyone!

I need your opinion on a matter.

I met a guy about a year and a half ago. (Lets call him X) Since I loved sports, I decided to join a sporting school and X was my trainer. At first I didn't think anything about it, I just found him good looking. The more I got to know him the more I fell head over heals for him only problem is....He has a girlfriend.

But I believe he has been giving me signs. For example.... When I went to go shake his hand...we shaked hands and I went to let go and he continued to hold my hand and look at me.

He invited me over to watch a couple of old movies. We laugh and smile together...

Other signs like he picks me to be his partner and we like the same music, same car. We have the same values...

We seem perfect for each other..

I don't know if he feels the same way. Or if I'm just crazy.

Should I risk everything and tell him how I feel or just let it be played out and not interfer??

I have no idea.....

Thanks in advance!

[SoulSearch_CO]

Since has a girlfriend, I'm going to go with "no" as to whether or not you should try to make a move. Leave it up to him IF it's going to happen.

[DavidH]

He's had you over and watched old movies together - I assume without his girlfriend there. Thats a date.

 

He's using sublety in physical contact.

 

You have nothing to risk, and it doesn't matter that he has a girlfriend - if they're serious you aren't going to break it up... but you might want to give it 2-3 weeks of knowing him before you basically make him 'choose' (Hey do you want to go on a date?)

[kinkasaurus-rex]

He has a girlfriend, whether it's serious or not, shouldn't you wait till he's available?

[carhill]

If same music and same car indicate high school, no worries. He'll be available soon

 

Enjoy the attentions of other boys...