Goatsbreath Posted February 14, 2009 Posted February 14, 2009 So its day whatever, I think 7 NC and I could figure it out but I told myself I'm not counting the days in between what was and what is anymore. Why count the days between what is and what is not even there, it don't exist. This is my 4th attempt at walking away and even though I have looked back 3 times this time feels the best. I feel resolute in my search and even though I broke 19 days NC last time I feel it helped me rather then set me back.
DSM-IV Tom Posted February 14, 2009 Posted February 14, 2009 How long were you guys together/how long has it been since you broke up again?
Author Goatsbreath Posted February 14, 2009 Author Posted February 14, 2009 Well, we were together for around 3 years and we have been friends for over 12. We didn't always see each other a lot during the 12 but just kept in touch. The exact date of the breakup is not real clear as it was sort of not clear at first but I'll put it sometime in the middle of December. She moved out January 1st into her new apartment and is seeing someone else. The last 2 times I see her she tells me she would still like to be friends and I can call her but she never calls me. The hell with it, I don't need to know how her and her new boyfriend are. Oh, hes married and has two kids and is just seperated from his wife. This is info I got when she was claiming he was just a friend at the start. Do I miss her, yeah, but the pain is less and I have not been breaking down like I was. I think the last time I broke contact was my transitioning stage from denial into whatever this is. Acceptance I guess. I have less of the moments where you suddenly feel like its all a dream, like is she really doing this to me. I think they say anger comes after denial but I don't have much. I think for me its denial and then insanity
Author Goatsbreath Posted February 14, 2009 Author Posted February 14, 2009 You make no sense. I just got done saying I'm doing pretty well. Maybe the words made you sick before you actually read what I wrote.
Author Goatsbreath Posted February 14, 2009 Author Posted February 14, 2009 Here's a Idea, post something under one name and then jump onto your other account so you can agree with yourself and the helpful insights you provide.
Blessings Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 wtf u gotta be so rude for? he's allowed to write whatever he wants about...nobody asked for your opinion if your gonna be such a d*8k about it...damn...and plz dont give that BS about u trying to help through giving a hard kick in the pants...it has been a month since she left from what I read and most people (unless they're dumbasses) KNOW that it takes longer than a month to get over someone you were with for 3 years and knew for 12 years.... :rolleyes:
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