FIREMAN Posted February 14, 2009 Posted February 14, 2009 I was w\my GF for 2 1/2 yrs. A month ago, we had a big argument cause she was going to come over, but her friend had an extra ticket to a show. Normally, I wouldn't mind, but this happens quite frequently last minute. We argued and I said I was done w\"us" being this way. She countered saying she doesn't know if she has feelings for me anymore. I think we both said things we didn't mean, cause we were mad. Anyway, there was no real "Break-up" per se, but I didn't call her for 2 days and then she called me as if nothing happened. We got back to somewhat regular phone calls, but we've only gotten together once. In the past, she never wants to go places w\me, never to clubs, bars, movies, etc, just comes over and hangs on my couch. She complains it's too cold, we should save our $, she's tired, etc... But, if her GF's show her some attention and want to go to a movie, club, etc, she runs to them and agrees to almost anything! That's Y we argued. She's had horrible Female friends in the past. They've betrayed her trust, etc, so I understand her need for new close Female friends, but it's almost like she's so desparate for new friends, that she puts us second. She asked me to dinner last week and it was nice, but her mom joined us cause it was her mom's b-day. After, she kissed me on the lips and said it was gr8 seeing me again. Was that a hint that she misses me and she wants "US" back or just being nice? I asked her to go out for V-Day, but noticed some hesitation, so I cancelled it. Now, she suggested we get together this coming week. I'm confused by what our status is. Are we a couple still, friends, does she want more, etc.? She calls me 2-3 days in a row, but then I don't hear from her for a few days or she won't return my call the same day like she used to. Don't know if she's mad (cause I didn't call her after our fight), scared\unsure of what I want, playing hard to get(since she knows I'm interested in US) or what... How do I approach us giving US another chance when I see her?
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