Joker77 Posted February 13, 2009 Posted February 13, 2009 After her telling me the night we broke up that she wasn't thinking about dating any time soon, I find out today she's been dating some new guy. It's funny....I got a sinking feeling for about two seconds before I started laughing about it because I know the trash she has dated before me. Well you reap what you sew. You sew douche, you reap douchebags. Whoever you are new guy, it's your problem now.
Knight_Ctrl Posted February 13, 2009 Posted February 13, 2009 yeah man thats how I had to look at it. She did the same thing to me with the guy before me, to me and I assume that she is going to do the same thing to the guy after me. Just sit back and wait for the fireworks, then you can laugh about it....if you even still care by then.
BCCA Posted February 13, 2009 Posted February 13, 2009 Anyone that says "im just not looking to date right now, "i just got out of a relationship", "I just want to be single for a while" or any variation thereof just gave you a spinoff of the oldest, and most BS excuse in the history of dating: "Its not you, its me" Its a load of crap. Its flat out not true at all. I personally dont even accept it from people anymore, I just call them liars and move on.
UCLAMike Posted February 13, 2009 Posted February 13, 2009 sounds like my ex and many others. Have you guys noticed something about these kinds of girls? They are all the same seriously. Was your girl very private, feminine, and likes to hang out only with you and never in a group? These girls jump from relationship to relationship and get validation from guys. My ex had nothing going on for her. She wanted to basically make over herself and get picked up under the wings of a successful man. Girls like this are not mature enough and very often have psychological issues deeply rooted in insecurity. She won't call you anytime soon. She will call u only after she gets dumped or dumps the new bf she has right now. Don't take her back, she is still the same. She has to experience real trauma and heart break to snap out of it and start living for herself.
Clarenceturbo Posted February 13, 2009 Posted February 13, 2009 Yeah, I got basically the same response to things when my ex ended it. She wanted to be single and find herself. I don't equate whoring around to being single and "finding" yourself. Like UCLAMike said, its for validation of sorts, and by the way you described my ex to a T. Well, except for the hanging out with me primarily. It was a mix of both.....but i guess more with me. And yes, they will not be calling anytime soon when the bottom falls out in their current situation, unless you were the most solid of her previous bf's. If your ex is anything remotely like mine.....she will end the relationship with said dbag, then move on to another one.....or sleep around until a new dbag pics her interest. Either way, these guys can have em. Who wants to be with a girl like that? Not me, I deserve much much better
Author Joker77 Posted February 13, 2009 Author Posted February 13, 2009 Yeah she pulled the whole "it's not you, it's me" bs. I told her to save it. I said we were both grown adults and to tell me the truth. Of course, it was more bs. I honestly believe now she had her eye on someone all along but wanted to make sure he was still in the wings when she threw me to the curb. The person I feel sorry for is her daughter. That poor kid has seen a revolving door of men in her almost 9 years of life. She deserves some stablilty...not some selfish mother who is only worried about her own selfish interests.
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