Sears Posted February 13, 2009 Share Posted February 13, 2009 As a brief summary, I went out with a lady for about four months who later started to pull back suddenly. She was pretty much hot/cold during whatever we were doing and in the end said she couldn't do anything more with me now... I took it as no spark/another guy/scared or whatever so I pulled back and started going out with another woman. This woman started to contact me again within two weeks. We chit chatted for a few months, went out for couple drinks and so on. Once I accidentally sent her another person's text that had a term of endearment in it. She immediately asked me if I had woman and such. Figuring I'm in the friend zone but not that cool, I declined to answer. My gut told me she was building up to something. She asked me to a family event during the holidays. Still thinking I'm in the FZ, I accept thinking she's fooling with a guy who doesn't go to things like this. Shortly after this thing, her sister in law that I work with thanked me for going with her and said she's tired of seeing her lonely. I guess that may shoot down the guy theory or supports my theory about a guy who will bed but not go to events. Flash forward to a couple weeks ago. I ask her out to hang out. She shows up dressed up, smelling good and hair done. We talk about all kinds of stuff including dating. I mention that in the past when I've been in the FZ, the woman hooks me up with friends. She refuses to do this but then tells me about some guy who on cue starts calling. I ask her why has she been out with me for 6 hours if she has a dude. She gets ready to leave but I get her to stay another 45 minutes. She says I wonder where should I tell him I was. I tell her tell him the truth, you were with a friend in a calm manner. One more paragraph and then my question...Out of the blue, her sister in law started inviting me place with her and her man knowing my friend would be there. Her best friend who has always wanted me to come out to his house with her to study me ramps up his attempts to get us to show up together. My questions 1.What kind of friend zone is this? 2.Why do I get a negative reaction if I talk about ladies 3.Why does she hesitate to introduce me to other women. Folks who really want to be friend and have me in the FZ have done this. 4.A friend of mine told me that she believes the woman may only have just started going out with this guy and wanted to see if I was into being more than friend. Is this possible Please feel free to offer opinions with the limited info provided. I have other threads here with the same dame. Link to post Share on other sites
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