carlos04 Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Hey people im new to this and i feel like need to talk to somebody so i really hope i get some advise...Im barely 21 and i've been with my 20 year old girlfriend for 3 years she's also the mother of my 1 and 8 month old son. We've been living together for as long as we've been together once i found out she was pregnant i really felt like it matured me to the fullest i got a job and u know got a us a apartment.. u know at first i was still hangin with my friends and drinking or what ever it really didnt come 2 me that i had 2 stop that but things got worse we broke up for about three months and i realized like "what the eff am i doin i got a family" so we worked it out and things were smooth till now....Bout two weeks ago she started sayin that she felt that i deserved better and that she thought i was miserable cuz i we always argued and she said she wanted 2 work it out for my son but i asked her do u love me shes like yea, no , in the middle i just dont know..so i told her i dont think when someones not sure they love someone they should be together....so i decided to brake it off then i found out in my cell phone bill that she was texin a coworker bak in fourth the night we argued and every night after that so i confronted her and she admitted that it was some stupid flirting and they would talk bout gossip at work or whatever..so i belived her and one night my son got really sick and she came over to help out and then her phone started beeping so my dumb ass checked it and it said "I miss u 2" and WOW my heart dropped so i kida knew my position after and i've been ignoring her ever since and shes been sayin how much she misses her family and how much she loves me or whatever but damn people i feel like i got played i luv her and i wish all this was a dream but i just dont know wat to do??????!!!!!!!!!!!
SushiX Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Talk with her. Ask her what she wants. She seems a little confused. Seems like she really likes this new guy but then she can't just leave you and the baby. When someone tells you that you deserve better normally means they want you to find someone and just move on. So do just that. Move on. If she's not happy being with you then nothing can change that, not even the baby. Talk to her. See what she wants. You'll know her position. Don't wait on her. Find your happiness unless you like to linger around and be miserable like most people here after a breakup.
Author carlos04 Posted February 12, 2009 Author Posted February 12, 2009 You know wat we did but rite now it just feels like i cant see her u know i feel like im gonna say "WHY" u know and im pretty proud of myself cuz i've backin off completety but shes making it hard for example she left me a note at our apartment sayn she misses her family then on tuesday she was literally beggin me 2 take our son 2 tha mountains because we never have gone and taken our son to the snow...she started sayin how its gonna be valentines and she misses the family and how she wants 2 be with us.. BUT i told her u know wat i cant im not ready for all that cuz at the end of the day i know im not gonna have it....i dont understand if y doesnt she just leave me alone if thats what she asked for in the beginning???
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