smile_through_tears Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 time passes n passes n i continue like this and i try to act so u dont see me like this i'm suffering...i miss you!
Truly Lost Posted February 16, 2009 Posted February 16, 2009 Sweetie, has he given you any reason (right now) to hold on to him? Think about you and your happiness. Don't you want to be happy again? Try to forget about him or at least put him second to your daily life. Its the only way you are going to start feeling better. Think about you and the emotional state you're in. Do you want it to stop? Then work on things that will get him out of your mind. You can miss him, and thats ok, but not when it consumes you so much. I'm sorry you're so sad. I hope you can recover your emotional happy state as soon as possible.
Author smile_through_tears Posted February 16, 2009 Author Posted February 16, 2009 thank you so much for the kind words... =)
not_a_happy_camper Posted February 16, 2009 Posted February 16, 2009 hi smile. I wish I could make it better for you. I wish there was some magic trick to make the snap the pain away. I really feel for you. I'm still suffering too. I hope we both feel better soon.
BCCA Posted February 17, 2009 Posted February 17, 2009 hi smile. I wish I could make it better for you. I wish there was some magic trick to make the snap the pain away. I really feel for you. I'm still suffering too. I hope we both feel better soon. I think all of us are hurting in one way or another. Hang in there, we're all in this together.
ItsMe Posted February 17, 2009 Posted February 17, 2009 "Put him second to you daily life" thats a good phrase actually better than the ones i've heard of just "forget about him" which suck. & Yeh every part of me(over the last couple of weeks) has been an act in front of people / him..I guess you just have to show them that you CAN live without them & be happy (even if your not) because if you show them you are happy (even if just an act) without them, then either: -Eventually you'll just start to be truely happy without them -Or they'll see you happy & feel like crap & hopefully their heart will break a little inside because they will see the happy you they orginally liked..Which if he came up to me now & said he was heartbroken i'd say good & wouldn't / couldn't get back with someone who would ever make you feel like this I'm not sure if that second one makes sense, it does in my head anyway Hope you feel better one day (:
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