dakotamaiden Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 this guy and i get along really good at work we like each other. we were talking on phone once a week, but the last couple of weeks when ive called he hasnt called be back like he use to . he has his cell off good be many reasons, could even be out of town visiting friends??? when i see him at work he doesnt ignore me, we are casual friends and thats all we will be. just i just forget him, or am i just put thought in my head he ignoring me when he could be busy doing something else. i really enjoy talking to him on phone.
alphamale Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 i don't understand what you're asking here...
BCCA Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 So, you haven't talked to him on the phone for a couple weeks, but you see him at work? If so, that should make it pretty obvious that he seems to be avoiding your calls, especially if it was easy to get a hold of him before. I would chalk this one up, and move on. Truth be told, dating people from work is a bad idea anyway.
Author dakotamaiden Posted February 12, 2009 Author Posted February 12, 2009 i don't understand what you're asking here... if it means he s ignoring me or just busy and didnt get back to me??
BCCA Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 if it means he s ignoring me or just busy and didnt get back to me?? Well, no one here can read minds, but I can take a pretty good guess. I think you know the answer. Lets see, at one time, he would answer and you two would talk. Now, he isnt answering or calling back. It doesnt get any more obvious. Hes not interested.
Author dakotamaiden Posted February 12, 2009 Author Posted February 12, 2009 yes i guesse your right hes such a good person i just wanted him for a friend. i dont want to do anything stupid so he ignores me at work
BCCA Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 yes i guesse your right hes such a good person i just wanted him for a friend. i dont want to do anything stupid so he ignores me at work If I can be honest with you, it sounds like you wanted more than a friend. If he picked up on that, and wasnt in the same mind frame, that could explain him distancing himself. Just stop trying to call him, and be civil at work.
Author dakotamaiden Posted February 12, 2009 Author Posted February 12, 2009 yeah thats what probably happened i did really like him and we did flirt sometimes thanks for your advice
SoulSearch_CO Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 If he had been as into you as you had been into him, he would not be "busy." That's a B.S. excuse. HJNTIY. I agree with BCCA - stop the calls completely and just be his friend at work.
Author dakotamaiden Posted February 12, 2009 Author Posted February 12, 2009 yes he doesnt want to get ienvolved with anyone. i thought we could be close friends. we will be friendly plus i watch his dog when he goes out of town to work. he pays me to do it a side business i have. so i will see him and talk to him
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