kashmir Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 So, after talking with a number of supportive people in my life, that by the way say I have done absolutely nothing wrong and don't have an attitude problem, I'm over that really low class girl that cheated on me right in front of me. And yes, what she did was cheating. I was reluctant to say it before, but we DID become exclusive, using that exact word. I was reluctant to say it because in other threads where I expressed some frustration people were telling me to dump her. I took that into considering, but I liked who she was too much. Well, I was fooled and played bigtime. I've seen her around with this guido guy she hooked up with at the party. I'm very sure she'll do the same thing to him. I almost feel kind of bad for him. It's weird. Everything started to go downhill as soon as she brought up being exclusive and I said yes. It's like she wanted to know she could get me, and then throw me out. What was depressing me before is realizing that everything she said to be was worth nothing. This was the first time someone outside my family every expressed some kind of liking to me and really enjoyed who I was. She would tell me that I was a dork but that's why she liked me, because I was different. That means jack squat now, though, especially since she's now with the typical frat dude that she told me she hated. That's what got me depressed for the last few days since it happened. I feel better today, though. I'm ready to take on the world again. There are a few girls I've seen around for a few weeks and would like to talk to. There's this blonde girl that would always take quick glances back at me and this past girl. I was outside a room in another setting on monday and she was there too. I noticed that she was taking quick looks at me a lot. I tried to make eye contact and smile but I'm not sure if she saw me. I sat relatively close to her last class but was unable to talk to her (for positioning reasons and just plain shyness ). She's really pretty. As I've said before, opening seems to be the hardest part with me. Any ideas on what I can say without seeming like a lame-o? Then there's this other brunette in another class. She hasn't noticed me as much but I still want to talk to her. She's usually with girl friends though. I know it must seem really easy for a lot of guys, but I just feel like whenever I try to approach a girl it comes off totally wrong. If I can land a number and a date, where it would just be myself and the girl on our own time, I can take it from there, but I don't know how to make a good first interesting impression.
Star Gazer Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Oh, now you were exclusive? Well, I'm sure you know that I don't believe you. Your story is always changing. How can we provide any constructive advice when we cannot trust you to even state the facts as they really are? Good luck, Kashmir.
Author kashmir Posted February 12, 2009 Author Posted February 12, 2009 I didn't read what you said but please stay out of my threads. It's obvious you have never had anything constructive to say to me and many others, nor do you have anything constructive to say now. Save some cyberspace and pixels and just don't post here.
Author kashmir Posted February 15, 2009 Author Posted February 15, 2009 Oh please SG, just stay out of my threads. You don't like me, I get that, but seriously I'm just a young teen filled with angst who's trying to get through life like anyone else. No need to rip on me so much. I'm optimistic, though. I'll tell you all how everything plays out come monday.
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