paddletennis Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 My fiance broke up with me last month. We had only been together 8 months. He sent me the most beautiful love letters and said I was the love of his life, and would never be without me. He asked me to marry him in July. I told myself I would never have a better man in my life..God I love(d) him. But there were problems: the fact that he is 62 and I am 52. The fact that he is conservative and I am liberal. The fact that he is Christian, and I am not. And the fact that every Fri-Mon was spent at my home, since I live close to the beach and to our favorite sports activity. After a couple months he started bringing his laundry to my home to do - never contributing detergent, hell, never even bought me flowers. He would buy groceries once in a while, did buy me some dinners, and did buy me a nice bike. But all the while I started to feel a bit used. When I tried to talk to him about this on Jan 6, that was it. He broke up with me two days later. He said he cared deeply about me, but the fact that we were on different pages made him feel in his heart that this wouldn't work. I am having a hard time with this; I don't call him, but I still see him at our sports activity on weekends, and it hurts, since we play together or opposite each other (we are both very good at this sport). I don't want to stop going down there because then he wins. And he is still very nice to me. It wasn't an ugly breakup, but I hurt. I just want to get over the pain. Arrgh. And here comes Valentine's Day....
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