Lucky555 Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 I have my eye on a new boy. I know nothing about him. I don't even think i know his name. I'm somehow drawn to him. I think eventually i may be able to chat with him next time i run into him which will be soon because of this convention thing. BUT I just have a really bad taste from dating "not right for me" guys. I seriously have developed a very negative attitude towards dating. I'm really just frustrated, angry, confused, and wondering what the heck am i supposed to do. I feel as though dating should be fun and outgoing...its like i need to find my "spirit" with the concept. Even now when i think of liking this new guy, I just don't have enthusiasm and I need to work on myself . Now even if i have my eye on this guy or any other guy..I feel the same. What have you all done to get your DATING spirit back?
Surfer Dude Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 What's this whole "not right for me" thing? You can't really tell if someone is right for you unless you give them a chance. On a side note, I know many women who fantasize about "perfect prince" and reject anything coming their way, I have nothing but laughs for those women. I know a lady who straightforwardly shoots down any guys and their attempts of asking her out (including me), and yet she keeps complaining to her friends how she can't find a "perfect man", that she's reading romance novels and wishes there was a perfect guy like in those books and similar BS. Such people deserve to be perpetually single, because no one really deserves to be with a hypocritical and a dumb person. Give him a chance!!! Something good can come out of this! And if it doesn't, well you lost nothing.
MN randomguy Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 I hear what both of you are saying. I understand intellectually that I need to "get out there" more. However, I'm emotionally exhausted.
Geraltt Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 What have you all done to get your DATING spirit back? I hear what both of you are saying. I understand intellectually that I need to "get out there" more. However, I'm emotionally exhausted. Just take action. The feelings will follow on their own.
BCCA Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 On a side note, I know many women who fantasize about "perfect prince" That's most women in their 20's from my experiences. lol I could go on at great length about the ridiculous 'standards' that I've heard over the years, and surprise surprise, they were all single! Go figure... MN, there is nothing wrong with taking a break and letting your mind recoup. Just try not to worry about it for a couple weeks or a month.
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