Touche Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Yeah I don't find that sexy at all personally. Well that's you. You're certainly entitled to your opinion.
Trialbyfire Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 http://www.bebe.com/Pointelle-Pretty-Cable-Turtleneck-Sweater/dp/B001KTJNDA?ie=UTF8&pf_rd_r=0CVKEF6S2EGB9QFFFP1Y&node=675974011&pf_rd_s=search-results&field_browse=675974011&searchSize=20&pf_rd_t=101&field_availability=0&id=Pointelle%20Pretty%20Cable%20Turtleneck%20Sweater&searchBinNameList=null&pf_rd_p=467734511&ref=browse_item_3_B001KTJNDA&searchNodeID=675974011&pf_rd_i=675974011&field_launch-date=-1y&searchRank=-custom-rank&searchPage=1&pf_rd_m=A2FMOXN01TSNYY I'm going to assume this is a very, very casual situation, so refer to the attached. It's a tight little sweater that lets your body do the talking. Pair it up with a pair of snug jeans and a pair of hot boots, sandals or shoes.
Crestfallen_KH Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Hey a denim skirt should be part of any wardrobe... ...if you're a 12-year old girl. I think it's funny that it's mostly women responding to this thread when the OP specifically asked for a guy's opinion.
Trialbyfire Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Hey a denim skirt should be part of any wardrobe... ...if you're a 12-year old girl. I think it's funny that it's mostly women responding to this thread when the OP specifically asked for a guy's opinion. Most guys don't know what a woman's wearing. They either drool or don't.
Touche Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Hey a denim skirt should be part of any wardrobe... ...if you're a 12-year old girl. I think it's funny that it's mostly women responding to this thread when the OP specifically asked for a guy's opinion. I don't agree. But then I can't stand most of the trashy styles out there. There's nothing about that look that says "pre-teen" in my opinion. I think it looks great for a casual yet sexy look.
Die Hard Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Well that's you. You're certainly entitled to your opinion.I already knew that. And people post so damn fast here I couldn't edit to say I do not like minis that hug the legs in any way. IMO, it should be very soft and loose, even flaring a little if needed. And like Touche says it's my opinion and I'm entitled to it.
Touche Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Most guys don't know what a woman's wearing. They either drool or don't. Sooo true. Unless they're gay. Most gay guys have a good eye for fashion..men's AND women's.
Die Hard Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Sooo true. Unless they're gay. Most gay guys have a good eye for fashion..men's AND women's.Actually this and Trial's posts are just you girls trying to be inflammatory. I have very strong feelings on what I like women I'm seeing to be wearing and it has to do with what I find appealing and sexy, not my sexual orientation. And I do not demand they wear anything. They either wear what I like or they don't.
Crestfallen_KH Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Most guys don't know what a woman's wearing. They either drool or don't. So true! I've found, though, that men and women often disagree about the clothes that make a woman look sexy. So, it would be cool to hear some more actual guy opinions on the subject. I mean, I really don't want to be left with "t-shirt with no bra." Can't we do better than that??
Trialbyfire Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Actually this and Trial's posts are just you girls trying to be inflammatory. I have very strong feelings on what I like women I'm seeing to be wearing and it has to do with what I find appealing and sexy, not my sexual orientation. And I do not demand they wear anything. They either wear what I like or they don't. What? It's true. Most of my male friends would say something like this. "She looks hawt in that dress thing" or "What an arse" or "Guuuhhhh" I've never heard a hetero man say, "I like a woman in a silk boucle jumpsuit".
Die Hard Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 What? It's true. Most of my male friends would say something like this. "She looks hawt in that dress thing" or "What an arse" or "Guuuhhhh" I've never heard a hetero man say, "I like a woman in a silk boucle jumpsuit".Just because they don't know what it's called exactly doesn't mean they don't have an eye for fashion. I was actually worried about posting in this thread because I know what I like but I don't know what the clothing is called so it can be hard to express what I like or find slutty. For example, there was a tight fitting outfit a girl I dated used to wear that drove me up the wall but I don't know what it's called. They were black tight fitting cotton with some kind of stirrups that go under the feet. She'd wear that and a pair of high heels. I loved it and is one of the few outfits that I see women wear, that don't show leg, that I find sexy. IMO, you made it out that we don't see what they're wearing because we're looking past it. That isn't true but I will admit that no-matter what you wear we're thinking of taking it off you.
Touche Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 What? It's true. Most of my male friends would say something like this. "She looks hawt in that dress thing" or "What an arse" or "Guuuhhhh" I've never heard a hetero man say, "I like a woman in a silk boucle jumpsuit". It's really true. I remember not long ago when we were on vacation and one day I asked H if I should wear the cami or the golf shirt. He said "what's a cami?"
Touche Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Didn't those stirrup pants go out in the 80's? If not, they should have. I hated that look. It looked like women were wearing tights with high-heels. Kinda trashy looking if you ask me.
Die Hard Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 It looked like women were wearing tights with high-heels. Kinda trashy looking if you ask me.I think they look a little trashy too. Sometimes a good thing. Thank the lord for those women stuck in the 80's.
Touche Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 I think they look a little trashy too. Sometimes a good thing. Never a good thing in my book. I guess it depends what kind of guy you want to attract...no offense.
Die Hard Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 I guess it depends what kind of guy you want to attract...no offense.Why would I take offense?? Women have needs same as men. I don't fault them for that at all.
Isolde Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 All I can say is that I seem to get noticed a lot more when wearing jeans and a t-shirt or tank top, than a trendy outfit complete with nice shoes. The key is to wear something that is a little tight and to have one nice color in there somewhere.
Trialbyfire Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 To illustrate my point a little more: Ex: I like you in that black skirt. Me: Umm...I have 10 black skirts, which one? Ex: The one you wore the other night. Me: Which night? Ex: I can't remember. Me: Describe it. Ex: It was about this long (indicates length on me). Me: I don't have a skirt that length. Ex: Oh...I don't know. Me: Thanks for the compliment. I'm glad you like whichever skirt it was.
Die Hard Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Me: Thanks for the compliment. I'm glad you like whichever skirt it was.See I make sure she is made aware of what I like at the time so hopefully I see it more. I don't like being told what to wear so I don't do it to women but that's why I make sure and say something. If they don't know, then you can't fault them for not wearing stuff you like more often. And trying to describe it a week later doesn't always cut it.
clv0116 Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 All I can say is that I seem to get noticed a lot more when wearing jeans and a t-shirt or tank top, than a trendy outfit complete with nice shoes. The key is to wear something that is a little tight and to have one nice color in there somewhere. Depends on the situation but while I like jeans (no, not in a skirt Daisy Mae) what really does it for me on a date is a casual below the knee skirt with a nice blouse. The blouse can show either arms or neck or even some back but please no cleavage. I want my date classy and if she looks like that it really does it for me. Ironically I'm either a jeans and shirt guy (sweater in cool weather) or a business suit and tie guy, I have almost nothing in between. Sad I guess.
Isolde Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Depends on the situation but while I like jeans (no, not in a skirt Daisy Mae) what really does it for me on a date is a casual below the knee skirt with a nice blouse. The blouse can show either arms or neck or even some back but please no cleavage. I want my date classy and if she looks like that it really does it for me. Ironically I'm either a jeans and shirt guy (sweater in cool weather) or a business suit and tie guy, I have almost nothing in between. Sad I guess. So you kick her out of the restaurant if she shows a bit of cleavage? I'm just kidding. I hate skirts that hit below the knee in general, since I'm short and don't have the longest legs. I like skirts that hit just above the knee--but not mini's. OR dresses can hit anywhere and still look good on me, for some reason. I actually always found dresses more attractive on me and others than skirts.
clv0116 Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 So you kick her out of the restaurant if she shows a bit of cleavage? I'm just kidding. I hate skirts that hit below the knee in general, since I'm short and don't have the longest legs. I like skirts that hit just above the knee--but not mini's. OR dresses can hit anywhere and still look good on me, for some reason. I actually always found dresses more attractive on me and others than skirts. I love dresses also, and over the knee is OK too but not much. Sometimes a dress looks overdone for a casual date but I guess I'd like to see what you have in mind. As for cleavage no of course not but it depends a lot on the individual case. I just don't think people should wonder if you're gonna have a wardrobe failure any second or not. Why don't you girls link some things you like and just have the guys discuss those specifically?
Die Hard Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Oh and I do have one piece of random advice. Don't wear what you know a guy likes all the time since we can't learn to have new fantasies about new clothing if you never wear anything new and different. Plus I had one chick wear the same damn outfit constantly after I told her I liked it. I found it a tad clingy so you can go too far.
Star Gazer Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 http://www.bebe.com/Pointelle-Pretty-Cable-Turtleneck-Sweater/dp/B001KTJNDA?ie=UTF8&pf_rd_r=0CVKEF6S2EGB9QFFFP1Y&node=675974011&pf_rd_s=search-results&field_browse=675974011&searchSize=20&pf_rd_t=101&field_availability=0&id=Pointelle%20Pretty%20Cable%20Turtleneck%20Sweater&searchBinNameList=null&pf_rd_p=467734511&ref=browse_item_3_B001KTJNDA&searchNodeID=675974011&pf_rd_i=675974011&field_launch-date=-1y&searchRank=-custom-rank&searchPage=1&pf_rd_m=A2FMOXN01TSNYY I'm going to assume this is a very, very casual situation, so refer to the attached. It's a tight little sweater that lets your body do the talking. Pair it up with a pair of snug jeans and a pair of hot boots, sandals or shoes. Great minds! I have that in watermelon and black!
movingonandon Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Sexy is an outfit that just subtly hints at the hotness underneath Slutty is an outfit that busts it in your face But, I personally am a bit nostalgic about the long gone era when women dressed like presents .
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