shadowplay Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 In a casual, non-work/non-date setting where a woman isn't exactly dressing up?
Lucky_One Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 My boyfriend loves it when I wear regular old jeans and a white tank top. I am a B-cup, and he HATES seeing large breasted women in tank tops; he says they ooze, and anything that oozes is gross. Brown leather belt, Rainbows, painted toenails - and he is over the moon. If it's chilly, he is also partial to me putting on one of his shirts on top of that and tucking it in. He also likes fitted thin sweaters and t-shirts with a scoop neck; fitted enough so that you don't have lots of fabric billowing, but not tight. Says he could eat me up with a spoon! Are you looking for something out for drinks, or something out for a picnic, or something out for playing football in the yard?
nicki Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Go for the opposite of what the other women are doing. If they are wearing super-low cut slutty man-catching "tops," then wear something that bares your shoulders, maybe a silky high neck halter or a sweater style tube top. Or a bareback number. Always form fitting skirts or pants/jeans, high heels. Add a few pieces of flash, maybe a bracelet, necklace, earrings -- but not everything. A scarf tied around your purse handle or slipped through the waist band loops of your pants adds a nice fem touch. Or go for a fairly conservative looking dress that is form fitting and shows your curves. I wear a lot of those tight sweater dresses with a slight turtleneck and bare shoulders. Red is a must somewhere. Red heels, red top, or a red purse or scarf. Just not red everything. Use it like a spice. Just a bit. And always smell amazing. Spritz that perfume in your cleavage and on your inner thighs. Your body heat will warm it up, and every time you move, you will release a bit of scent. I always get a lot of compliments from men that I am sexy but not slutty, so maybe doing something right?
nicki Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Sorry, reread your post. Not dressing up much? Tight jeans and a fitted tee or tank. Zip up hoodie. Baseball cap. Some jewelry, just a bit. I like to wear a black tee or tank. It instantly dresses up anything. You can always add a bit more jewelry if you need to and lose the baseball cap. Add a dressier sweater and you are good to go.
Tomcat33 Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 I am a B-cup, and he HATES seeing large breasted women in tank tops; he says they ooze, and anything that oozes is gross. So what is a woman with big breasts supposed to do, hide behind a cape in the summer time?
Ramrod Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Tight sweaters, tight skirts (but just at the knee, not above), black stockings, tee-shirts with no bra.
Lucky_One Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 So what is a woman with big breasts supposed to do, hide behind a cape in the summer time? Wear a shirt with a supportive bra? Why would she need a cape?
Tomcat33 Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Wear a shirt with a supportive bra? Why would she need a cape? So wear a shirt in the summertime instead of a tank top to make you feel better about your B cups? I said cape because just because a woman has big boobs it doesn't mean she has to do everything in her power to hide them, they are big it's hard to hide them no matter what, so might as well embrace them. And a tank top is a lot more practical than a shirt on a hot summer day.
clv0116 Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Nice past the knee skirt and blouse, modest but dressy shoes and not too made up.
confused_2008 Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 I'm probably really weird, but the right girl looks extremely sexy in a hoodie, tight jeans, boots and a baseball cap. *hides from ensuing comments * I don't know, maybe because I'm still college age? But it's seriously sexy.
Touche Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Oh just wear the cape, TC! I can't really get an idea about what kind of setting you're talking about, SP. Do you mean just general running around? How about a longish skirt with a slit? Can be a jeans skirt. I think sleveless turtlenecks (in warmer weather) look sexy too if you have nice shoulders/arms. Pair that with the denim slit skirt and I think that's a sexy but casual look. A nice eye-catching belt too.
clv0116 Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Hmmm. Well for me jeans skirts look a little too trailer trash but I guess some people like that look. I like a nice classy look myself, with a little calf showing. Something that showcases your neck if you have a good neck.
Tomcat33 Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Oh just wear the cape, TC! A big cardboard box with holes cut out for the head and limbs, and painted as a rubics cube works well too to disguise big oozing boobs. It denotes an air of mystery and mulitfaceted intelligence. Sorry Shadow I will stop now. I think the best way too look sexy and not slutty is to leave something to the imagination: A tight-ish sweater /top that accentuates the form leaves something to the imagination. A deep cut boobie top exposing massive cleavage, does not A knee length tight skirt leaves something to the imagination A micro mini where you can see up to a woman's last name, does not. A pair of tight low rider jeans that are held in place by belt and expose a bit of skin in the back or belly when sitting down can be sexy A pair of super low cut jeans that expose a thong and massive butt crack is not. A white button down shirt with a button open just above the cleavage with a peek a boo a lace white bra beneath that shows when she moves is sexy A super tight white t-shirt with no bra on is a wet t-shirt contest, therefore not sexy. My rule of thumb is if I show some skin up top I don't at the bottom or vice versa.
Touche Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 A jeans skirt is a classic. How is that trailer trash? Very funny TC. Also, loved your list. And my mother always taught me that if you wear a longish skirt, you can wear high heels but if you're wearing a shorter skirt don't wear stilletos unless you want to look like a hooker.
Lizzie60 Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Wow.. some of you guys need to come to Montreal to get a 'lesson' how to dress classy/sexy... Jean skirts are sooooo old-fashioned.. I can't believe what I'm reading here..
wierdmunky Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Wow.. some of you guys need to come to Montreal to get a 'lesson' how to dress classy/sexy... Jean skirts are sooooo old-fashioned.. I can't believe what I'm reading here.. really? not even a mini jean with a cute flowy, spaghetti strap strap shirt and flip flops for summer?
Tomcat33 Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Wow.. some of you guys need to come to Montreal to get a 'lesson' how to dress classy/sexy... True enough Montrealers have a keen sense of fashion, sexiness. So what would you consider dressing sexy and classy, I am curious to know your take on it...
Die Hard Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 This is a tough question to answer since in my experience one woman can look like a slut in a piece of clothing while another can look fine in the same outfit. That said I am a LEG MAN and jean mini skirts are not sexy at all, imo. Other than that, anything that shows a lot of leg while at the same time leaving something to the imagination always works for me. For me personally, whether a woman looks like a slut has just as much to do with her hair and make-up as it does with what she wears.
Touche Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Yeah, this is soooo old fashioned! Sheesh...that's the kind of jeans skirt I'm talking about. http://www.newport-news.com/shop/product_single.aspx?style_id=30412178&cm_ven=datafeed&cm_cat=price&cm_pla=app&cm_ite=all&srccode=cii_5784816&cpncode=24-22835890-2 I dress classic not trendy. And certainly not old-fashioned or trashy. To me a jean skirt is a classic piece to have in your wardrobe. A long one with boots is also really nice in the fall/winter.
Star Gazer Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Jean skirts to the knee: a definite NO. Short, slightly frayed jean skirts: can be cute, on someone under 25.
Die Hard Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Yeah, this is soooo old fashioned! Sheesh...that's the kind of jeans skirt I'm talking about. http://www.newport-news.com/shop/product_single.aspx?style_id=30412178&cm_ven=datafeed&cm_cat=price&cm_pla=app&cm_ite=all&srccode=cii_5784816&cpncode=24-22835890-2 I dress classic not trendy. And certainly not old-fashioned or trashy. To me a jean skirt is a classic piece to have in your wardrobe. A long one with boots is also really nice in the fall/winter.Yeah I don't find that sexy at all personally.
Star Gazer Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 With all due respect, denim should not be worn in any style other than JEANS.
Touche Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 True enough Montrealers have a keen sense of fashion, sexiness. Yeah but New York is the fashion capital of the world isn't it? (My hometown) So what would you consider dressing sexy and classy, I am curious to know your take on it... This should be good!
Touche Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 With all due respect, denim should not be worn in any style other than JEANS. There's no "should" or "shouldn't." It's personal taste. I think it looks great. I love a longer flared one with boots and a cable knit sweater. A real classic look. Think Ralph Lauren;)
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