Author suzieeq Posted February 11, 2009 Author Posted February 11, 2009 i know he is not still emotionally involved.. he told me in the beginning he was friends with his exes still.. but never talks about them. i think it is just a weird guy thing, that im trying to get to the bottom of.
Lucky_One Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 My XH used to, stargazer; is that rare? Have to admit that this isn't a topic I talk about often with guys!
manugeorge Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 just by saying that i would be starting unnecessary drama by throwing it out.. i dont think i am a drama queen... i am just trying to get some advice here. sorry, bashing wasnt really the right word there.. it came out wrong. i am just really confused here about why he would keep this out in plain view. I don't understand why you won't just ask him. Not being able to ask a simple and straighforward question of someone you are intimate with is what smells of unnecessary drama...not bashing you, just sayin'. Guess and analyzing something that trivial is what drives a person bonkers.
Author suzieeq Posted February 11, 2009 Author Posted February 11, 2009 i guess i just dont know how to bring it up.
confused_2008 Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Oh. My. God. It's a freaking bottle of soap! If you guys can't resolve an issue with a bottle of soap you have much bigger problems. Ask him if he uses it. If he says no, ask why it's there. How do you know it belonged to an ex? Maybe it's his mom's that she left there after visiting for a weekend... *end of thread*
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