i think i need to break up with my gf.

[flyguy23]

Ive been dating this girl for 3 yrs but at this point i cant stand her. we constantly fight and argue. we are just two totally different ppl and its just not healthy at all. she feels she can do whatever she wants without any consequence and im just sick of it, she acts liek shes single and she doesnt have to answer to anyone. we are in college and i feel like im wasting my time with her because we are never going to see eye to eye on anything. what should i do?

[Nikki Sahagin]

Perhaps you've grown apart. How long have you been arguing for? Days, weeks, months, years? And what are the arguments about? What brought them on? Have you sat down and discussed the ways in which you feel she has changed? You say you are in college; are you at seperate colleges?

[flyguy23]

well we've been fighting for months, and yes we attend different schools. the fights are basically about things she does and i get mad about. i think that i need a girl that i share the same outlook on life and just everything overall. we fight becuase she does things on her own w,o asking or talking to me about it. she does drugs w.o syaing to me i have to hear from other ppl, she colored her hair and when i saw her recently i didnt even recognize her, its jsut things liek that where im liek wtf is going on you dyed your hair and didnt mention it to me.we planned to hang out for our spring break since we dont see each other often and now shes talkign about going to fld. with her friends its jsut hurtful. she just acts like a single person making choices on her own and thats just not the kind of girl i want to be with. i dont know but im just not happy with her and i think i need to end it before i waste more time

[alphamale]

its time to cut the old ball 'n chain loose buddy...

[Geishawhelk]

Say Buh-bye, now....Buh-bye....*wave*......