MichelleS1983 Posted February 13, 2009 Posted February 13, 2009 I met him and he lied about his wife. I had no idea he was married. It's a long story how I found, but I found out about a month after the affair started. Sorry, I have no kind words for a woman who disrespects herself to the point of allowing some lying sleazebag to STAY in her life after she finds out the low-rent TRICK he pulled to reel her in. In one of your subesequent posts, you actually say that this loser is the one you're 'meant to be with.' Did you do something in a prior life that you feel the only option in this life is align yourself with a lying, cheating, sneaky con artist? You don't feel you deserve someone with CHARACTER, DIGNITY and INTEGRITY? And you're actually considering bringing this liar around your three old child if he ever DESERTS his wife and family for you? It's one thing to disrespect yourself - you're an adult and can make bad decisions if you want to. But who are you to visit this dysfunction on your innocent child? Good luck with this waste of skin. You'll need it.
theotherwoman100 Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 I was a business woman for twenty years...traveled the country and in my old line of work, the ratio was 90% male and 10% female. Besides that, my family owns a chain of strip clubs. Getting to my point now...I'm kinda cute and very friendly. It is very easy for me to get people to talk and open up whether male or female. Most of the married men that I have met and know have told me they will never leave their wives. Either they love their woman (which by the way are not aloud to cheat on them) or its because of the kids and of course money. Men cheat (my opinion so lets not jump on me) because they are lacking the attention they use to receive in their relationships. Everyone, men and woman love to feel that the opposite sex is attracted to them, it makes them feel alive and youthful again. Imagine what it felt like when you first met your husband or previous boyfriend. Couldn't wait to see them, sneak off, have wild passionate sex, ect. But the reality of the situation is, once a man has his roots with a family, its very hard for them to break. It's not personal, its sexual. I feel for the wives that are clueless. Life is too short. For The Other Woman...there are many wonderful single men out there that will love you to death...throw this guy out like the piece of garbage he is.
Mr. Lucky Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 Sorry, I have no kind words for a woman who disrespects herself to the point of allowing some lying sleazebag to STAY in her life after she finds out the low-rent TRICK he pulled to reel her in. And after finding out, she said to herself "I want to set myself up to be treated just like that" ... Mr. Lucky
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