JB1982 Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Its been a while since ive gone out on a date or had a gf.Now at work theres a new girl attractive.. I tried flirting sometimes I would feel maybe she likes me other times I felt maybe she isnt interested. She doesnt work with me by the way but in another part of the store. My first night back when I went on a break to have a smoke 5 mins later I came back inside and was told by my cousins GF that the girl I like came to her 5 mins after I walked outside and said that she thought I am cute and would like to get to know me. Ive been talking to her when I can, I asked her one night just as she walked by me if she had a few mins before she had to go that I would like to talk to her .. We talked I told her that I liked her and she said the same she thought I was cute and wanted to get to know me. She has a ex she is living with and are trying to work it out cause of their kid but she says she doesnt think it will work. Last night I asked her is she would like to go see a movie and she said she would but shes unsure if she has to work sunday. And it wont be posted till Thursday which I know is the truth. I just still cant really tell how she really feels or what shes really looking for.. Could she just be leading me on for just to get something out of it or what .. Ive kinda been in that kind of thing before and now im just really cautious about it. Im a bit shy but ive been trying to break free of that and just try to go for it without being afraid still a work in progress but I have to say ive been doing alot better than I used to when I would count on her friends or my friends to give me some info on what she thinks says about me ect.. Any girls tell me what they think of all this let me know guys to thats fine .If you need to know a bit more just ask and I will let you know.Sorry for this being so long im tired from work last night and ive just got millions of things running in my head .
Enema Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 She's been pretty clear so far that she likes you. All signals are 'Go' from what I can see. Keep pushing.
Author JB1982 Posted February 11, 2009 Author Posted February 11, 2009 What if she has said before shes looking for friend dating kind of think .. She is trying to work it out with ex but like she said she dont think they going to work it out.. So thats what I dont know she looking for a friend nothing more but she says dating and she tells me she like me . Cant really tell if she just want to be friends or just testing me see how far id go .. Or maybe she only wants a friend and possibly could turn out to be something serious since shes already likes me. just dont know if I should be trying to push ahead or sit back for a bit and if things seem to be turning towards serious then go for it.
peteyj Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 I don't think any sign really means anything. There were a couple of women whom I got their numbers, talked to them, texted them, then scheduled dates with. They were all excited and wanted to hang out with me for lunch of for a drink. But then I never hear anything back from them. I never go on the date. They never respond. So in my perspective people aren't being nice, they are just being a-holes. If you don't like somebody tell them. Don't pretend like you do and want to go on a date and then skip out and never get back to them. And I'm not one to linger. If a person doesn't bother to even show up or get back to me about a date they wanted to go on, I"m done and I move on. No reason to waste my time contacting that person again. But it has happened a few times over the past month. No clue what to think really.
Author JB1982 Posted February 12, 2009 Author Posted February 12, 2009 Yes, thats what I think too. I've been on those before to find out later on they never wanted to go but just didnt want to be mean , Or they would say sure and just never show up and say something came up. I rather be told the truth right away "Sorry im just not interested " and maybe hang out as friends only if... Myself I hate being mean to people I feel really bad about it even if it was not me being mean. But any girl that is into me that im not into her I will tell her im not instead of just making something up and leading them on to thinking they could ask another time.
sand26 Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 dude. she's into you. end of story. But she has a child and she lives with baby daddy, so.... Don't start building this into some big thing in your mind, there may be variables other than: "Does she like me?"... Just go out with her when your schedules coordinate and see if you can have a comfortable and nice time. Don't be so giddy and crazy about her yet, she may turn out to be dull or crazy or just not for you. If you build her up on some pedestal now, you may not be able to truly see who she actually is. BUT REST ASSURED,,, as of now SHE THINKS YOU ARE CUTE the mfk
SoulSearch_CO Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Uh. She may be into you, but why the hell is she trying to get with you when she's still supposedly trying to work it out with the ex. Let her know that you're interested in her, too, and to let you know when she's completely available. Otherwise, you are setting yourself up for heartbreak when she oh-so-conveniently decides that it IS going to work with the ex.
Author JB1982 Posted February 13, 2009 Author Posted February 13, 2009 True yes .. I havnt been building anything up to far.I have actually brought it down a bit. Right now where im at is ok im going to see her go out ect whatever it may be take it for the ride see where it leads but ready for the oh uh my ex and I worked things out putting me out of the picture. But im going to run with it for now.
Author JB1982 Posted February 15, 2009 Author Posted February 15, 2009 Well here is an update, Well its Valentines day Yeaaahhhh.. Not really, I got some flowers you know so get to see her after she got out of work .. I gave her the flowers told her happy Valentines day.. I mean dang she say thanks and like that way it not a kiss figured maybe too soon for that maybe so atleast a hug .. Guess what lol not even that wow yeah I got nothing but thanks.. Not even a hug can you belive that ? Then she kinda was complaining with my cousin and his Gf about how we was suppost to go to the movies but shes got to work and like she cant go unless we go to something after she gets out .. I called her after and asked her well would you like to still go just me and you since you dont get out till 9 and they are going before that? She was like well something about work and being tired after that maybe some other time .. I was thinking ok well i mean she was complaining that they dont want to go after she gets out they want to go to an earlier show as if she would go after she gets out , but when i ask her if she would still like to go but we could just go without them they then doesnt want to go .. sorry but now im just thinking many things .. this girl either dont know what she wants , shes playing me, or something i dont know ..
SoulSearch_CO Posted February 15, 2009 Posted February 15, 2009 LOL...can you say "the ex got me something better for V-Day?" Gees - you are heading for a world of hurt if you keep emotionally investing in this girl. But here's a shovel - go ahead and dig away. You seem content to do so, anyway.
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