jadelil25 Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 I really need your help and advice. When I was 18 I was abused by someone who is a lot older than me for 18 months. I moved on until last year when I saw the guy around a couple of times. I had a bad year last year, got depressed and lost my job. I had a boyfriend at the time who said he would be there for me etc. After a month he dumped me, said that he did not love me any more, that im selfish and other narsty things. This really got to me and made me down and i still think about it. I have another boyfriend now and I keep freaking on him and getting paranoid about loosing him. I have apologised several times for upsetting him and apologised for coming across as selfish. He knows about my past and was fine with it. But he now seems to be a bit distant. He was fine on Sunday until we got up and then he seemed to go quiet on me and distant. He just said that he was tired. He tells me that he cares about me, wants to make me happy, be there for me and show me how special I am. He says that I make him happy to. I really care about him and want to be there for him. I know he is working hard and long hours at the moment which i understand. Am i wrong for opening up to him? Am i pushing him away for behaving like I do? What can I do? I really need your help and advice. I really dont know what I can do.
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