voldigicam Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 I recently acquired a college-age companion. She's about 30 years younger than I. So I'm a bit uncertain on tending to her appropriately. Such things have probably changed a good deal in the last 30 years. She has a regular boyfriend, but she seems to enjoy our conversations and time together. She has piercings in interesting places, a couple of tatoos. She's very open sexually. Sort of matter of fact. I'm wondering how to keep her interested, keep the adventure going. I got her some cute clothes that matched the kind of things I've seen her wearing. What else would someone young, in college, busy, not well off, and keeping an older guy happy on the side like to do/see/have as a present? Thanks, and no flaming please.
Enema Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Seems like a pretty straight forward transaction. Shoes/Clothes, Beauty Products, Jewellery, Bills, Phone, Computer, MP3 Player, Car, Holiday.
SoulSearch_CO Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Well, first I'd drop the terminology of "tending to." She's not a child, nor a plant. But moving on... Well, if you're into an expensive gift, how about an iPod? Or if not quite that expensive (or she already has one), some music credits or gift card, or something. When I was "college-aged" (and even still now), I was big time into books. A gift card to Barnes & Noble would have freaking rocked my world (I'm being totally serious - I <3 books). Honestly, I'd even have a hard time shopping for a girl that age. I think gift cards are the safest bet, but some people think they're impersonal. If she has like a dorm room, or something, a gift card to her favorite home-store like Ikea.
Author voldigicam Posted February 11, 2009 Author Posted February 11, 2009 Ah yes, her computer just died. That might be good for a couple of months of companionship.
Lucky_One Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Yes, that might do nicely for a few more months of companionship. You could also pay for her birth control pills and your own condoms.
movingonandon Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Focus on the things that mst guys her age can't provide. And this doesn't only mean money - but also style, manners, attitude, worldliness etc. Go all-out old school on her, but no need to restrict it to predictable things such as dinners etc. It's all good except for the boyfriend part - it makes her a ho, and you - a douche, by extension , sowwy , though probably inevitable in this situ
Author voldigicam Posted February 11, 2009 Author Posted February 11, 2009 Ah, manners I have. And worldly experience. Patience. Taste. Gentleness. I can see how that worked, actually. Probably why I know where all her piercings are. That little bar through the hood seems quite a good idea. I will be on my very best manners. While I'm currently working in good old boy mode most of the time, I used to be a high-level "suit" in court and boardroom. I'll remember that. Thanks
confused_2008 Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 This thread is creepy but, whatever works for you both I guess.
Author voldigicam Posted February 12, 2009 Author Posted February 12, 2009 It is rather creepy, isn't it? I read about it, college girls looking for a regular older friend with surplus cash. What's very odd that we actually get along very well. She's sharp. Today we talked about her volunteer work in most interesting field. Rather extreme - not many could do the job, let alone as a volunteer. I think most people would end up with nightmares. We spent a long time snuggling (just snuggling) and talking. She smiled lots and made me smile. We're not so different. Both nerds at heart. She's got glasses and is perhaps heavier than ideal. On the other hand, I think concentrating on manners, poise, and worldliness worked well. Along with the little nothings I brought her. But yes, kind of creepy. Not really a romance, just an accommodation. We talked about it being kind of weird. Managed to get relaxed and enjoy ourselves anyway. We haven't actually had "sex" - but something along that spectrum. Thanks all.
Green Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 I think it would be less creepy if you just start having sex with her. And as far as something you could get her to keep her interested you could see if she'd be interested in something like a vegas trip, schedule the trip a few months down the line give her something to look foward too talk it up all the time an bam u've got her hooked.
Tomcat33 Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 I'm wondering how to keep her interested, keep the adventure going. I got her some cute clothes that matched the kind of things I've seen her wearing. Hate to say it but if you have to ask that I think you've already lost.
chrislovestosurf Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 good for you bro, but dont let yourself get feelings for this girl. Like someone else said, shes a huge slut if shes banging you and her boyfriend doesnt know. Dont worry about the things she wants, just wine and dine her as a gentleman of your age would and then take her back to your place and lay the pipe, lol. Shes using you and you are using her, so who cares what she wants. It sounds harsh but thats the reality. Just have fun with it until it ends. Let me know how you make out.
sand26 Posted February 12, 2009 Posted February 12, 2009 Sure, you can buy her ****. You can be classy and worldly and all that. But what else could you provide that her little 25 year old "bro-ham" can't? um.....how about 30 years of sexual experience? don't undersell yourself buddy. This girl has probably never been tied up, dominated, teased, she has probably never squirted, or played fantasy games. She may have never been ANALyzed. Has she ever done tantric sex, has she explored the Kama Sutra. Why don't you just pop one of those little blue diamonds and show this girl what kind of man the 1970's made you. Behind her piercings and tattoos I guarantee you there is a very sexually immature girl. THIS IS YOUR CHANCE TO TEACH HER!!! just think of all the men who will reap the benefits of these lessons in the cumming years. enjoy, the mfk
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