Biohaz420 Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Okay i have like this guy on and off since 9th grade in highschool(was 15 am now nearly 19) and he has just come back into my life. When i liked him in highschool he had a gf, and his best mate from primary school was a very short term ex. His name is Ash because this is just confusing any other way lol. This is where it gets complicated. My ex ended up with my best friends sister for over 2 years (they just broke up), and so Ash often ended up at my mates. Well on new years day he drove me to pick up another mate then left my besties. At about 1am he comes back and i was the only one still awake and we sat drinking and playing guitar hero for about an hour or so. Best friends mum and brother got home and he was going to leave, and i asked he didnt cause i was bored, so he stayed. My 2 best mates (Cassie and Aimee) got up after being passed out for ages, and Aimee's mum cracked it and kicked us out for being too drunk and noisy. We ended up at a par drinking in his car. At some point he looked at me flirtingly and said ill get naked if you do (we both did lol) I admitted i liked him, not sure whether it was before or after nakedness. And he tried to finger me in the like 2 minutes we had alone. Since then we have seen each other a couple of times for unrelated things, but last Saturday he took me and Cassie to the beach and then came to my house and got drunk. The confusing thing is he seemed to be flirting with both of us, but more to me, we have much better conversations and yeah. He also said he was going to buy me a present. After that we went for a walk to 7/11 and in drunkeness he knocked me over, then came and offered his hand to help me up, but he didnt let go straight away but didnt grip tight, and neither did I as i am scared he doesnt like me more than a mate and i dont wanna ruin a friendship. But yeah we like sorta held hands briefly. A while after we got back he threw up all over my bed and passed out. I obviously had to clean it loll, but in the morning i told him he could clean his own bucket, at which point he gave me puppy dog sook look and asked me to do it please, my mum would see and he would be embarrased, and figured may aswell. About an hour later he had to leave to get some stuff for his work, but before he left my room he said call me if your not doing anything 2nite, and when i walked him to his car he said make sure u call me. He came back over, but since then havent heard from him. Cassie has heard from Ash since then. but asking about a girl he was hooking up with who is pissed at him, and who i dont really see (much longer story lol) then he said the next time me and her were doing something we had to invite him. One other piece of info, we played 20 questions by txt a couple of times, and he has answered every question i have asked, but got to a point he couldnt be bothered thinking up questions (which of what i know him was more a only things he could think of would embarrass him) I know he doesnt want a relationship yet as he isnt long out of a 4 year one (i dont want a relationship either) just need some insight into the male mind to get it lol
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