jack79 Posted September 30, 2003 Posted September 30, 2003 Hi guys big problem here , I am too romantic for my own good , I hardly go out with a women before I start getting romantic its like some switch inside me or smthing ..lol cant hold the romance its almost like , with my x gf she used to keep saying are u reading out if a book or something and I would be no ,just comes to me when I think about you . I think this is a major problem because I am having a hard time finding anyone who is like upto taking so much romance ..lol I am otherwise a very practical guy but when it comes to a girl I like I can keep talking to her for hours about her hair and eyes , I dint even realize this till my x brought it up ..then I was like yeah I see ur point ..but its very hard for me to love a girl and then not be overly romantic , Is this normal and does anone else face a similar problem ..i aint joking it is a problem because it ends up making me very vulnerable ..i mean I keep rattling on and on ..any idea how I can curb the romance a bit Do you girls think being too romantic is a problem? Thanks
subtitled Posted September 30, 2003 Posted September 30, 2003 i sort of have that issue... in all areas of my life, i'm very practical and people often think i'm quite unemotional.... when i meet someone i like, a switch is flicked and enters: -overanalysis -many desires -overemotional sappy feelings -etc. etc. but i think it's pretty normal. I doubt i would spend hours telling someone how beautiful their eyes were, but i might come close It might be weird because you appear to love the other person in the relationship more than they're willing to acknowledge their love for you - which may be intimidating for them, but other than that, it sounds really sweet. Over romanticness can get a bit tiresome though..
Kelebek Posted September 30, 2003 Posted September 30, 2003 You're right, it can be tiresome, but it just depends on the girl. I bet some girls would absolutely love that. You're a dream man for many girls. I am not very good at accepting compliments, so a man commenting on my "beautiful eyes, hair, lips" etc would have me squirming uncomfortably. Maybe once I was more familiar with them, closer to them, then I'd enjoy it, but not too heavy too soon. A little compliment here and there would do the trick at first, I don't know many girls who are into big romantic gestures these days. Over the top can sound insincere aswell, so be careful. Anyway, I hope you find a girl who thinks you're just as wonderful back
WambleMistyc Posted October 6, 2003 Posted October 6, 2003 Well, i got the same problem too, but i'm a girl...lol i'm soooo romantic and worse thing is that my b/f is not!, and it suxxxxxxxx!! don't feel bad though, i understand your situation...good luck!
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