get back with an ex- writing a letter?

[shaquira]

I don't want to bore you with too many details.

I was with my ex for 2.5 years..he was my first real love

basically i was the one to break things off. There was so much going on around that time/ family death( he was unsupportive) due to his issues at the time/ he admittedly cheated on me.. I LOST IT!!!.

 

I changed my number and never called him back. My EX tried calling my best friend because he had no way to contact me. He called 2x my friend and sent a message for me tell her i said "hi".

My best friend told my ex to leave her (me) alone..it's over.

 

I was never an angel with him so please don't feel too sorry for me i made alot of mistakes as well. He once said he was too comfortable in this relationship/ felt like we were married couple!!!

What was i doing wrong? Is he afraid of commitment?

isn't comfort a good thing.All i can say is that i have GROWN ALOT these past months. In 8 months, i haven't dated anybody( MET A FEW GUYS)

but i miss him so much:love: and i was thinking of writing a letter( i have no other way of contacting him)

Question is

did i wait too long? and if i write what is a good way to write this letter..i don't know if he has a serious gf.. MY GOAL IS TO GET BACK TOGETHER , I'm willing to forgive only if there is change

I never actually told him it's over. should i leave him alone?

thnx

[Geishawhelk]

Yes.

You should leave him well alone, get on with your life, and let him move on with his.

The issues that were, will be the issues that are.

 

You don't want to re-awaken crap.

 

People change, times change and circumstances change.

Sometimes people get back together.

More often than not, it's an unmitigated disaster.

 

 

Leave well alone, DO NOT write the letter, and drop it.

 

If you stay stuck where you are, you'll just grow stagnant and ugly.

Keep walking.

 

Really.

Believe me.

 

Never go back.