Kat Posted September 30, 2003 Posted September 30, 2003 My partners best mate just got married. They had a full Buck's Weekend and the wedding was on the weekend that just past. My partner checked his CC records while I was next to him and I saw a charge to something referring to "Jents" or "Gents" who knows. He kind of hung his head smiled and said "That was ****'s present, I went thirds" Now, this amount was well above $100 and in my mind I am thinking that it can't be anything but a prostitute. WHY? Why can't guys be happy with the fact they are getting married (or their friends are) and NOT take them out and get them strippers and what not. Now it may not be a prostitute, but what else costs over $500 and has reference to some sleezy gentleman's club in it and NOT be unethical. I am mighty pissed off here, not because I don't trust him, but that he was part of this "thing" that just isn't ethical or mature or anything less than adultry (and don't give me the "they weren't married yet, it doesn't count")
Tony T Posted September 30, 2003 Posted September 30, 2003 Lots of men have bachelor parties such as the one your boyfriend helped finance. All the guys get together for one last evening of hell raising. It's almost always harmless, even though sometimes strippers are involved. On extremely rare occasion, but almost never, there may be a prositute involved but bachelor parties don't usually go there. It's something that's a custom and men don't really think a whole lot about it. They just do it. It's all in fun and nothing you should worry about.
yes Posted September 30, 2003 Posted September 30, 2003 the girl should have a bachelorette party, too! it's celebrating your good-bye to freedom on both sides, isn't it? -yes
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