The Collector Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 I bet it's off that sostupid aka sosuave website. That's the kind of nonsense they spew over there. No it's not.
Author chris250 Posted February 10, 2009 Author Posted February 10, 2009 Do you think hes decided to take so long in calling for a second date because hes fixing his attic? What would be wrong with that? It's important to have all household problems fixed before going out on further dates. I don't think any self respecting woman would be thrilled to find out that I have problems in my attic.
Touche Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 No it's not. How do you know? Hee hee. Well from what I remember when I was last there, that was the kind of nonsense they were spewing. Chis, you shouldn't try to fix problems in your attic yourself. That should be left to a professional.
Enema Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 I think an attic is a metaphor for his brain. In that case, touche's advice is even more accurate.
dreamergrl Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 How do you know? Hee hee. Well from what I remember when I was last there, that was the kind of nonsense they were spewing. Chis, you shouldn't try to fix problems in your attic yourself. That should be left to a professional. Yes, I agree, and these problems will take a really great professional.
Touche Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Yes, I agree, and these problems will take a really great professional. Absolutely. Maybe even a team of professionals. Problems in one's attack are nothing to mess around with.
Author chris250 Posted February 10, 2009 Author Posted February 10, 2009 Also married women or women who have boyfriends are OFF limits! I don't care if she says she's unhappy in her relationship and that she's thinking of breaking it off with the other guy. I don't care if she starts chasing you through any means. You don't have any contact with her until she officially breaks/divorces the other man. How will you know when she's ended it? She will call you. If she is the type who will leave her other guy for you then she will more than likely do the same thing to you in the future. You only have a woman's past behavior to go on for predicting the likely outcome of the relationship. Best thing to do if you are interested in a girl who is already taken but she has expressed being unhappy then this would be the only time to give her your phone number instead of asking for hers. Tell her "if things don't work out with (name) then feel free to give me a call and we'll go out sometime." Don't worry. If her relationship has really fallen apart then it will run its course in time. Just play the waiting game. I wouldn't want it on my conscience that I had anything to do with the ending of her relationship with the other guy. I would like to know that their relationship ended on its own accord. Once she announces the good news that she's available and the other guy is gone then you can go to town with your dates with her.
Touche Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 I think an attic is a metaphor for his brain. In that case, touche's advice is even more accurate. Isn't that what Chris meant? I really didn't think he was talking about an actual attic.
Author chris250 Posted February 10, 2009 Author Posted February 10, 2009 If you happen to meet a girl who is happily married or in a LTR then politely end the conversation by shaking her hand and say "(name) it was great talking to you. Good luck with your relationship. You've got a lucky man on your hands. Hopefully you remind him of that. Take care." Smile and walk away. If on the other hand she is unhappy in her relationship then let her talk it out with you. Don't ever badmouth her boyfriend even if she does because she will be more inclined to take his side when you talk bad about him. It's reverse psychology. Only she is allowed to talk bad about him. I don't care if she spends 15 minutes calling her husband names. You don't voice your agreement or disagreement with what she says about him. Keep it to yourself. Only the husband's wife should be allowed to talk bad about her husband. Don't make excuses for his behavior either or she may think you are doing the same things he's doing to turn women off and that you are trying to excuse yourself in the process. Just don't say anything at all. Let her vent. When she's finished venting just tell her that you are sure it will all work itself out in time (even though you are secretly not hopeful) and wish her luck.
Author chris250 Posted February 10, 2009 Author Posted February 10, 2009 What are your credentials chris? Why should we take your advice over any other deluded hobo? I have had 5 LTR relationships. I didn't use most of this guide before. I just developed it and borrowed some tips from Doc Love but have tweaked it into my own system. I'm prepared to use this for my next date. Someone else made a comment about this guide promoting a man to be a doormat in the relationship. Not necessarily. I believe it's important for a man to pick his battles wisely. The less battles you pick with a woman the better off you'll be. Sometimes you just have to let things slide when she's doing something you don't agree with. For me it's better to keep my disagreement to myself. It's better for the relationship. It's better for my own peace of mind. As long as what she's doing does not effect your credit card or other finances then it's better to keep it to yourself. The thing is most men have no idea what a woman is capable of. Women are creatures to be feared even more so than rattlesnakes. A wise man fears women more than anything else in his life.
Touche Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 I have had 5 LTR relationships. I didn't use most of this guide before. I just developed it and borrowed some tips from Doc Love but have tweaked it into my own system. I'm prepared to use this for my next date. Someone else made a comment about this guide promoting a man to be a doormat in the relationship. Not necessarily. I believe it's important for a man to pick his battles wisely. The less battles you pick with a woman the better off you'll be. Sometimes you just have to let things slide when she's doing something you don't agree with. For me it's better to keep my disagreement to myself. It's better for the relationship. It's better for my own peace of mind. So you haven't actually tried most of the tips in your own guide out yourself but yet you're convinced this is the way to go? Okie dokie...whatever. Just curious but what do you call LTR? A few months, years..how long exactly?
anne1707 Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Just curious but what do you call LTR? A few months, years..how long exactly? Seeing as he plans to have only one date each with as many women as possible, we are only talking hours
Touche Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Women are creatures to be feared even more so than rattlesnakes. A wise man fears women more than anything else in his life. Oh shoot, I think I married a dumb man. Women don't scare him at all. And here I always thought he was such a smart man. Gosh, thanks a lot for bursting my bubble.
Touche Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Seeing as he plans to have only one date each with as many women as possible, we are only talking hours Maybe to some people just getting through ONE whole date constitutes a LTR.:laugh:
roxy_1980 Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Does anyone else think that Chris250 just may be the most deceptive and successful troll this forum has ever had? But..... Doc Love is advice from the least confident, commitment phobic man alive! I mean seriously, when do you have time to date? You're too busy sitting in the corner with some graph paper and a slide rule trying to constantly mathematical determine (and later attempt to manipulate) a woman's "interst level". Forget your "rules"/tips. Live your life!
anne1707 Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Maybe to some people just getting through ONE whole date constitutes a LTR.:laugh: It may even feel like a lifetime to the woman
runner Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 sorry, you lost me after about the fourth or fifth paragraph. ..seriously - a suit to starbucks ??
blondesmiler Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Gosh thats alot of information, although the odd point is good some is just of course in my own little opinion way off. Don't phone for 7-10days - why not? If your sitting there gagging too call and she is sitting their watching and willing her phone to ring (girls you know what I mean we all have done it) and yet you say don't for all that time! If you like a girl, call her you'll know either way then, if shes interested you know and can set up next date, if shes not you haven't just wasted 7-10days and can move on to your next date. A wear a suit at starbucks??? Unless meeting from work I think the smart/casual look is more acceptable and will make you both relax more, rather than feeling you are in a work meeting or interview. Shake hands on dates 1-3, I would take that as a show of no interest also way too formal and usually something I'd do at work meeting a client, a light peck on the cheek not only shows warmth but friendliness as well. Use two condoms?? Come on
Touche Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 It may even feel like a lifetime to the woman :laugh:You're seriously cracking me up, Anne. I think 7 minutes after my H gets home I'm going to have to tell him that he's not a wise man since he doesn't fear women. 32 minutes after that, I might make him fix that loose board on the back deck. Because no self-respecting woman would be with a man with a loose screw. After he does that I'll express 60% level of appreciation and give him half a BJ.
Shygirl15 Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Don't worry too much about it Blondesmiler, his real intention was to crack us up a lil' bit.. that's all.
The Collector Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 How do you know? Hee hee. Well from what I remember when I was last there, that was the kind of nonsense they were spewing. . I ran portions of Chris's advice through google, couldn't find any matches. A little of the advice might mirror some SS stuff, but definitely not the parts about being a doormat that never argues back.
Author chris250 Posted February 10, 2009 Author Posted February 10, 2009 The thing is many women can create a lot of trouble for a man who stands up to them. I'm sure Doc Love's intentions are sincere. He doesn't want men to get hurt in divorce court. That's why some of his rules are so strict. I am thinking about buying his dating dictionary. It's only 99$. It's shaped like a bible. If I do buy it I'll just lock it away in a safe place. I cannot risk any woman finding it. One more note about a woman's interest level is that it's not as high as it appears. If her interest level appears to be 70% then it's really 50% at best. Always subtract 20 points from her appeared interest level to get the real temperature.
JamesM Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 The thing is many women can create a lot of trouble for a man who stands up to them. Oh boy, this will be a thread in itself. I'm sure Doc Love's intentions are sincere. He doesn't want men to get hurt in divorce court. That's why some of his rules are so strict. I am thinking about buying his dating dictionary. It's only 99$. It's shaped like a bible. Bibles have a special shape? For 99 cents, it is worth the gamble...even if it is for some laughs. If I do buy it I'll just lock it away in a safe place. I cannot risk any woman finding it. No, you can't. So many women, so little time...especially if you start after 70. And if they all saw that book, then they may give you Nurse Ratched's (sp?) book on Love. One more note about a woman's interest level is that it's not as high as it appears. If her interest level appears to be 70% then it's really 50% at best. Always subtract 20 points from her appeared interest level to get the real temperature. Are you a scientist?
Touche Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 OMG, I can't stop laughing...James! By the way, I think he meant $99. Not 99 cents. Although it's probably not even worth that. Bibles have a special shape? :laugh: Yeah chris better lock that sucker up. Because no woman would see right through all that nonsense unless she read the book, right? I'm beginning to think we're being played. But it's fun so who cares?
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