allieapplesauce Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Hey, I'm just a little nervous about Friday. The last few guys i've dated have just upped and disappeared after months of wooing and showing interest in me...then gone... so I went out wtih this guy for coffee tues adn i really felt that spark right away, which scares me, because i know i need to overcome the feelings of feeling like im not worth it and no guys ever gonna like me cause i always get lied to and burned..... ok so we had a good time, at least i did. he gave me a hug when we first met, then a little hug when we left and we were originally going to meet up thur but had met up tues so i said 'if you want we can still meet up thur'. and he called thur and we went for a little casual dinner. gave me a hug when we met and a kiss on the cheek which i thought was really sweet. he told me i looked nice at dinner. we talked for quite a while. then when we left i think he was going to give me a kiss with the hug but i didnt realize so my head wasnt raelly in the right place so it was just a quick kiss and then he called me sat morning and we talked for like an hour and then the call just ended and i think his phone died cause it went to vm when i called right back so i left it at that. but during the call he mentioned Vday and going out fri since he works sat nights. ok well that's good but a little nervous as the most i've ever gotten on val day (and not even the actual day) was a stuffed animal and some chocolates..so im not sure what to do. the third day is a good idea, i mean it sounds like he is interested right? its just pretty early for vday...i dont know at all, not a clue what he would plan...but should i do anything? im thinking of the typical gender roles you know? im the girl, do i need to do anything? a card? last guy i dated, 5 mo in, he was sick so i gave him a goofy get well card adn he never said thanks and that basically was the last time he talked to me.....so im not sure what to do, what should you do for the 3rd date??? and i'd be coming straight from works i dont know what to wear. sometimes i wonder if its worth it! do guys worry about this stuff too???
Ramrod Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 We don't worry about this stuff. We go nuts over it. I wouldn't invest too much in v-day giiven it's so early on in your courtship. I think he should get you something, you could give him a card or something (Bj's are better). As far as what to wear, maybe you should inquire as to where he might be taking you and let him know your coming str8 from work. Unless it's McDonalds or something, what your wearing should be fine.
ruggy Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 We don't worry about this stuff. We go nuts over it. I wouldn't invest too much in v-day giiven it's so early on in your courtship. I think he should get you something, you could give him a card or something (Bj's are better). As far as what to wear, maybe you should inquire as to where he might be taking you and let him know your coming str8 from work. Unless it's McDonalds or something, what your wearing should be fine. Really classy Ramrod. Real classy. He's probably going to take you to a decent restaurant. Just where a casual dress or skirt. Its good that you are taking it peace meal. I usually have the extremes lately. Either straight to sex or nothing at all. Its the luck of the game.
You'reasian Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Be careful. You should probably take it slow and debate the entireity of the situation, remember to keep your logical side working rather than your emotional side - so yes you may feel giddy, but trust your rational thoughts as well, as that could protect you in case you miss a red flag. Best of luck!
Shygirl15 Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Hey, I'm just a little nervous about Friday. So you're going out on a date with him this coming Friday?
Shygirl15 Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Oh, BTW can I be the only tigress on LS, please?
nicki Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Shygirl, he's a male tiger, so you are still the only tigress on here. RRRROAR! Allie, I would get him a card, a funny one. In it, say how much fun you have with him. Don't sign it "love." Just your name. Go enjoy yourself. Sounds like he really likes you. *sigh* valentines day and someone new. It's exciting. Go with the flow and have fun. It doesn't have to be overly romantic, just a nod to the day on your date.
Shygirl15 Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Shygirl, he's a male tiger, so you are still the only tigress on here. RRRROAR! :bunny::bunny:
Author allieapplesauce Posted February 11, 2009 Author Posted February 11, 2009 This guy is a little different, so now I'm not sure how to handle it. Usually, they just text message, and they never buy flowers and stuff. He sent flowers to my work yesterday. Some pink and white roses. Is that too soon when i've only met him twice? I've never been given flowers before in my life! I called after work and said thanks. He seems to be a chatty type, I meet him just a week ago and he calls a lot, like every other day...so I was watching my tv show last night and missed his callback....so I am going to take it slow for sure. He asks me about my kitty and tells me stuff about his mom's two cats...just seems like weird convo for a guy...haha...maybe he is sensitive. IDK...He seems real nice, so hopefully my instincts are working for me. I can't get too mixed up right away because guys tend to just disappear on me, and so I have a hard time believing them. This guy seems decent, but I didn't want to meet him just to have a V-day date. So..... A card it is...when do i give it to him? first, end of date? to be honest, i've never went out for a vday before, so im so at a loss... Vday can be romantic with someone involved with seriously, but i think other than that it's just a pain!!!
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