Matty09 Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 I was going out with my ex for 3 years and on christmas eve she starting crying and said she didnt love me anymore. She said that we should just be friends. It hit me like a ton of bricks and i know everyone has felt it before. I thought she was the one and we were perfect for each other. I know the reason for her not loving me anymore was me. Long story shot i took her for granted and stopped being a boyfriend. About a month after we went to the same party and i made an ass out of myself. I brought up old problems and threatend every guy she talked to. I apoligized for it and we moved on. I found reasons to talk to her for a while untill i meet her for lunch on sunday. It was weird and she seemed like she did not want to be there. She said we cant keep seeing each other like this and by being friends she meet being cool with each other and not hanging out or talking on the phone. She has clearly moved on and im scared that i ruined any chance to get back together with her. All she does know is party and she is starting to meet guys. I mean how can she just move on like that? We were each others first so that just makes it hurt that much more(She is a perfect 10/10 so she will not have any problems finding otherguys). I cant sleep, cant do work, anything without thinking about her and how bad it hurts. I don't want to lose the friendship. I can move on i just dont want to give up hope that we can be together one day. I thought she was the one and i know there is other fish in the sea. I herd she hates the only girl i started talking to so i know she isnt completely over it. I just dont know what to do to make the pain go away.
Treasa Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 How old are you? I'd say that your best bet for ever being with her again is to forget about her and move on. Right now you're just a reminder of unhappiness to her. You need to let go, work on yourself, date some other girls, and maybe someday she'll miss you. Even if she doesn't, you'll have moved on. If you were each other's first, I can see why you'd think she was a perfect 10. But she probably isn't. No one is. There ARE other awesome women out there. You should get to know them. If your ex is jealous, it doesn't mean that she wants to get back together with you. It may just be a blow to her ego that you moved on. But moving on is exactly what you should do. Let her deal with her own feelings. Right now I would have to say that there's no chance to get back together. I don't say that to hurt you, but rather to discourage you from contacting her. If she wanted to get together, she'd contact you and ask to get together.
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