le_caz Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 my ex who dumped me got back in touch recently, she asked me to visit her someday and also asked was i going out with anyone. i said the odd girl, no one serious though. the next week she texts again however now she was slipping in hints about gifts she got and a friend of hers is a mechanic who's fixing her car. A lot of her texts were about a new "friend". when she said her friend was a mechanic i was happy for her so i replied ah good that's handy. she didn't reply to this and i haven't heard from her in two weeks, why was she getting in touch with me to basically tell me that she has a new male friend. was she trying to get a rise out of me and why hasn't she contacted me since, i do want to be friends with her she means a lot to me. should i contact her?
Author le_caz Posted February 9, 2009 Author Posted February 9, 2009 heres some background to my story by the way the distance was a problem when she broke up with me but no longer is she broke up with me, yes it does seem like she doesn't know what she wants at the time we stayed friends for a while although i wanted to get back together and she said we live to far away. i got a message from her saying happy Halloween i love you. this really was weird so i cut contact for a few months during which time she tried to talk several time including putting on facebook something saying " $%&* is chilling with her new "friend". she tried to talk to me that same day. i ignored her and now she text wanting to be friends and that leads to my first post! what i should also say is that she has low self esteem and suffered verbal abuse from her alcoholic father so im going easy on her, she also has been in a serious of relationships were basically she got used every time including one where she is left holding the baby. as you can see she has a lot of problems so you can appreciate im not in a rush to get back with her but i do care for her! its been a while so this behavior doesn't hurt me but her not talking to me does i was in a similar situation with an alcoholic father so i feel quite close to her and hope she gets in touch.
Ramrod Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Dude, I had a break-up once, where the woman did everything in her power to crush me spiritually, she too had "daddy issues (don't they all?), and was conflicted about how she felt about me, we had everything compatible but I lacked some qualities a shallow minded person wants in her BF, rock-hard abs and a ten inch poker to name a few. She woiuld call me and hang-up for months after she "canned my arse" just out of morbid curiosity to check the sound of my voice and to see if I answered, like I usually do by saying hello- and stating the name of the woman I currently date (no caller i.d. at the time). She's messed-up (your ex, mine too LOL) and she probably can't imagine your not trying to twist her incidental calls into a booty-call or a baby I want you back drama. Just go with the flow, move on, if she ever gets her acxt together, maybe consider taking her back otherwise chalk it up to her being flaky and nutty.
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