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By the end of date two if your having a good/nice time with a girl and you like her.

 

Am just curious as to what you expect to get out of the date?

 

i.e. a kiss, passionate kiss, making out, shag, another date????

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If he respects you, a kiss would be fine.

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I agree, a kiss.....

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i would expect a kiss, and hopefully another date! : )

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Question is too general. This is highly situation dependent. Definitely would prefer another date. But depending on the amount of sexual chemistry, could be a kiss, a passionate kiss, make out, shag, or shag all night and one more time in the morning.

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By the end of date two if your having a good/nice time with a girl and you like her.

 

Am just curious as to what you expect to get out of the date?

 

i.e. a kiss, passionate kiss, making out, shag, another date????

depends on what the woman is willing to offer, innit?

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Agreed, really does depend on both people. Sometimes a kiss would be fine after the 2nd good date, other times a shag would be cool after the first. Probably best to ask what you would have been happy with after the date ?

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I usually get to some more involved making-out after date two. I do the kiss after the first date.

 

Sex by the third date, fourth at the very latest.

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Jeez Samspade, slow down! Not all girls are like that!

 

I definitely think a kiss is cool at this point.:)

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A kiss is fine, but everyone moves at their own pace.

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Jeez Samspade, slow down! Not all girls are like that!

 

I definitely think a kiss is cool at this point.:)

I disagree. I think any girl would be willing to have sex on the first date given the right guy and the right circumstances. Only possible exception in my mind is people who use religion as an excuse. And any woman who disagrees with me just hasn't met the right guy yet.

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I disagree. I think any girl would be willing to have sex on the first date given the right guy and the right circumstances. Only possible exception in my mind is people who use religion as an excuse. And any woman who disagrees with me just hasn't met the right guy yet.

 

Disagree, what you will actually find is that women don't have sex on the first or second date because 9 times out of 10 she can be pretty sure she'll never see or hear from the guy again. So if she really likes him and even might want to rip his clothes off is unlikey to do so because she'd like to see him again.

 

If I was going to (and have) a one night stand then it would be with someone who I was not bothered about that much, they might look alright but that probably all thats going on. Easier that way.

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Disagree, what you will actually find is that women don't have sex on the first or second date because 9 times out of 10 she can be pretty sure she'll never see or hear from the guy again. So if she really likes him and even might want to rip his clothes off is unlikey to do so because she'd like to see him again.

 

If I was going to (and have) a one night stand then it would be with someone who I was not bothered about that much, they might look alright but that probably all thats going on. Easier that way.

I wasn't saying any girl would have a one night stand or sleep with any guy on the first date, I meant that everyone has people that just knock their socks off for reasons no one, including themselves, can explain, and that most girls would in fact get physical fast with someone that all the stars align when she's with him. Not in a slutty way but in a romantic way. There's nothing wrong with having sex.

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There's nothing wrong with having sex.

 

Nope I totally agree, its great.

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As John Cleese said In The Meaning of Life:

 

"What's wrong with a kiss, boy? Hmm? Why not start her off with a nice kiss? You don't have to go leaping straight for the clitoris like a bull at a gate. Give her a kiss, boy."

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I see nothing wrong ending a first date with a nice, passionate kiss.

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Those of us well versed in literature will remember that Romeo kissed Juliette within a minute of knowing her after she had already turned her head away to his first advance. look what happened there! And for the record, no one calls Romeo a pig! haha

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Those of us well versed in literature will remember that Romeo kissed Juliette within a minute of knowing her after she had already turned her head away to his first advance. look what happened there! And for the record, no one calls Romeo a pig! haha

 

Both of them also ended up dead shortly after, too. I wouldn't put too much stock in Romeo's judgment. ;)

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Both of them also ended up dead shortly after, too. I wouldn't put too much stock in Romeo's judgment. ;)

 

Yeah besides which, in this day and age he would have been given a restraining order.

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By the end of date two if your having a good/nice time with a girl and you like her.

 

Am just curious as to what you expect to get out of the date?

 

i.e. a kiss, passionate kiss, making out, shag, another date????

 

Depends what you ended up thinking about each other. Sometimes it can evolve into a shag, because you know in a million years you'd never be compatible, but you also know you're both single :lmao:

 

But if there's some romance usually a kiss. That said, it usually ends up lasting about half an hour!

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making out. lots and lots. at the very least. :)

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Expectations tend to blind one. And there's always special circumstances.

 

Wife 2, for example, had to overcome her last relationship before we could have sex. That "relationship" was a date rape involving a broken bottle and a moderate amount of violence. No point in pushing with that background.

 

Better times had with a no worries approach. Enjoy the company, every woman I've known has let me know when they want a kiss and when they want more.

 

Manners and real interest win the day.

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