reservoirdog1 Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 ... in men? Something like, "I can find a guy attractive, but if he has a nice ______, I melt." Let's make this a survey, shall we? Oh, and please be honest.
sedgwick Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 I'm a fan of tall skinny dorky guys with glasses. But if they don't have a huge brain, forget it. By the same token, there have been several times when I initially didn't find a guy physically attractive, but when I found out he was brilliant and funny, I fell in love. Looks honestly don't matter much to me.
hotgurl Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 I am a sucker for strong arms and nice biceps. mmmmm.
Isolde Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 I'm shamefully good at answering these superficial questions. I thought about it, and my top 5 physical things are: -A cute face. I like guys with ever so slightly feminine faces. Features like small noses and jawlines can be attractive to me. But I've also had crushes on guys with strong features, so I'm not picky that way. -Height from 5'9-6'0 is attractive to me. -Somewhat full lips -Strong, but not bulky arms and upper chest. -Twinkling eyes that convey the right kind of charm. Yeah. I'm pretty much a man addict.
AlektraClementine Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Toss up: Strong Hands and Chest Hair
soozie86 Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 A wonderful personality, sparkling eyes and a nice smile
dreamergrl Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Toss up: Strong Hands and Chest Hair What if it looks like he's wearing a sweater when he's shirtless lol jk
shadowplay Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 It's all about the full package, but I like (in this order): sexy, intelligent, alert eyes with dark brows strong, well-defined jawline nice lips tall (6'1" +) with broad shoulders thick (usually dark) hair large, veiny hands thin-normal weight Muscles don't do much for me. Some toning is good, but too much is worse than none at all. Don't care for more than a little chest hair. Don't care for unnatural tans, dyed hair, or slick clothes.
Shygirl15 Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 A wonderful personality, sparkling eyes and a nice smile Reasonable height doesn't hurt either:love:
AlektraClementine Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 What if it looks like he's wearing a sweater when he's shirtless lol jk Haha - let me splain: Chest hair that covers the..well..chestal area and a happy trail. NOT back hair. Weird thing is, my dude has little stray back hairs. They don't turn my off but if I stare at them for too long, I get all antsy and envision plucking them out.
dreamergrl Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Haha - let me splain: Chest hair that covers the..well..chestal area and a happy trail. NOT back hair. Weird thing is, my dude has little stray back hairs. They don't turn my off but if I stare at them for too long, I get all antsy and envision plucking them out. LOL excessive hair turns me off. I don't mind chest hair and a little trail, but it can't be all fluffy like
nicki Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 If I had to pick the most important one, I'd say: Eyes. They say it all. Beyond that, it's all up for grabs, and can be quite subjective and case sensitive. Sometimes I might like chest hair, but the lack of it on another guy might be sexy, too. I probably like the guy first, and then find his specific body parts sexy because they belong to him.
Isolde Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 I probably like the guy first, and then find his specific body parts sexy because they belong to him. This is true of me too. Not that I'm not superficial, but I tend to find a guy as a whole attractive rather than pick him apart. Conversely, there could be a guy with all of the physical traits I mentioned, that wouldn't quite do it for me because of the wrong kind of aura.
quankanne Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 I'm a sucker for accents. And blue eyes. chest hair is a HUGE bonus, as is looking nice in a pair of Levis ...
Tomcat33 Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Dark hair TOTALLY turns me on that is what I first look at!!! But the eyes and an angular masculine nose, not a huge hook nose but a manly nose, (none of that Brad Pitt button nose) is what draws me to a man's face. Hair on the chest is SUPER hot but I am a complete sucker for strong academic hands and manly forearms. Some hands look "smart", I know that sounds crazy but I've had boyfriends who had medium to long academic fingers SUCH A TURN ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Standing at the check-out I've HAD to see a man's face just because I spotted his hand and forearm and thought they were totally sexy. This is the epitome of the style of man I usually go for or variations of men that have these types of features and not even necessarily that pretty, the more rugged the face the better sometimes. OR a more brunette version of Alec Baldwin types, he looks a lot like an ex actually.
shadowplay Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 This is true of me too. Not that I'm not superficial, but I tend to find a guy as a whole attractive rather than pick him apart. Conversely, there could be a guy with all of the physical traits I mentioned, that wouldn't quite do it for me because of the wrong kind of aura. Precisely. The whole is greater than the sum of its parts. With me attraction is an either/or thing.
shadowplay Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 \ Hair on the chest is SUPER hot but I am a complete sucker for strong academic hands and manly forearms. Some hands look "smart", I know that sounds crazy but I've had boyfriends who had medium to long academic fingers SUCH A TURN ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Standing at the check-out I've HAD to see a man's face just because I spotted his hand and forearm and thought they were totally sexy. "Academic hands?" Whuh....?
Ruby Slippers Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Physical: Blue eyes and big pink lips! Neither is a deal-breaker, but I do love 'em. Non-physical: The smarter the better. Empathy and compassion go a long, long way, too.
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