gerkel Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 So my ex broke up with me three weeks ago, saying she doesnt have feeling for me anymore and that she wants the friendship we have, but just no sex, so since that time she has texted me saying she misses me, send a pic of her all dressed up going out with friends, and still has not dropped off my stuff from her place, even tho she drives by my place on her way to and from work, can anyone please tell me what might be going on in her mind, this is just confuses me more every day.
sailthemoon Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 hmmm that's a strange situation, maybe she doesn't feel like there is a rush to give your stuff back since you guys ended things on what seem like relatively good terms, as if things ended badly she would have probably been in much more of a rush to get all your stuff back to you, out of sight, out of mind sorta frame of mind... have you asked her or reminder her recently that you want to get your stuff back? or was it just mentioning it once, because it could just be a simple issue that she forget or something? that's my take on it anyway friend.
Author gerkel Posted February 9, 2009 Author Posted February 9, 2009 She is the one that has brought it up several times, asking me what all i had there, and she has even said what day she would bring it by, but nothing, i even gave her the option of just leaving it at the front door if she does not want to see me, still nothing, so, i am not sure what to think, i mean, isnt it easier to move on to both of us to not have a reminder in the same room as you? and to be honest, not sure on what terms we left things.
BCCA Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Its not that important to her. I've gone through the same thing a few times before, and I would lead myself to believe that there was some other reason, like that she wanted to make things work, didnt want to let go, etc...nope. She just doesnt care enough to make the effort to drop them off. send a pic of her all dressed up going out with friends Wow, how kind of her. "Hey, don't I look great? I'm going out to try and meet someone else, wish me luck" Thanks a lot...
Author gerkel Posted February 10, 2009 Author Posted February 10, 2009 So i confronted her, well atleast on the phone, WOW, how freaking stupid are people? ITS so funny, oh well, live and learn. Thanks for the advice everyone!
Geishawhelk Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Aw come on!! YOu can't leave it like that!! WHAT HAPPENED - ???
Author gerkel Posted February 10, 2009 Author Posted February 10, 2009 Oh, well i told her i was not giving up and still going to try and make it work, which at the time i was willing to do, but then the whole, "We will never be together" card came out so i was like ok no holding back anymore, and then she was like if you keep pressing me you will regert it, regret what? going to have me beaten up? call the cops:laugh: how will i regret it? she said she would move away, so if she did move away, and we would never be together why should i care? I mean honestly, really, that was so freaking dumb, and then i asked about my stuff she said she will drop it off when she feels like it, LOL. So finianlly I told her that the person she is righ tnow is not the person i fell in love with, and if that person ever shows up again, give me a call, but dont worry my friends, i am not holding my breath...LOL, i dont look good in purple....LOL
Author gerkel Posted February 11, 2009 Author Posted February 11, 2009 Ok, now this is just becoming annoying, so i want my stuff, and like i said earlier she drives by my place every freaking day, i need the closure that it will bring, and she knows that, so why is she bing a witch and not bringing it?
Author gerkel Posted February 11, 2009 Author Posted February 11, 2009 Yeah, you are right on that, but all this is showing me how not worth it she is or even was, guess i didnt really know her. oh well, live and learn and move on.
CrazyTammy Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 Hum let me think about this one Um maybe she does not care? Hello she hates you and burned your stuff, threw it out, or just gave it to some freak living on the street. God guys are lame.
Author gerkel Posted February 11, 2009 Author Posted February 11, 2009 ok, guys are lame, so not bringing by my stuff is not lame, is not childish and why the hell would she hate me when i am not the one that did anything to her????
CrazyTammy Posted February 11, 2009 Posted February 11, 2009 ok, guys are lame, so not bringing by my stuff is not lame, is not childish and why the hell would she hate me when i am not the one that did anything to her???? You're a guy so it is in your nature to do something. Just move on you won't see your stuff.
Author gerkel Posted February 12, 2009 Author Posted February 12, 2009 Thats right, i am the guy, so yeah i did do something, i loved her, treated her like a queen, never lied, cheated, hit, stole or anything of that nature to her, yeah you are right, i did do something, i was to good to her because of what she is doing!!!!!
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