loveinlife Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 just wondering what girls feels insecure about. my gf said she feels insecure because of herself and not me. when i asked her, she said she doesn't know. can you guys/girls give me an insight on what most girls feel insecure of please. thanks =) -love
Shygirl15 Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 She is insecure but doesn't know what she's insecure about? Well, normally females tend to be insecure of their physical features.
prettybaby Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 my gf said she feels insecure because of herself and not me. when i asked her, she said she doesn't know. Sounds like BS. I mean, she either doesn't feel comfortable about her physical appearance, or she may have trust issues as far as your relationship is concerned. Her answer was vague as hell.
Trialbyfire Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Your g/f might be insecure about feeling vulnerable. When someone, this includes men and women, enter into a relationship, they open themselves up to the potential of a world of love and caring, AND a world of pain and hurting.
Author loveinlife Posted February 9, 2009 Author Posted February 9, 2009 Your g/f might be insecure about feeling vulnerable. When someone, this includes men and women, enter into a relationship, they open themselves up to the potential of a world of love and caring, AND a world of pain and hurting. intelligent. thanks trial =)
Author loveinlife Posted February 9, 2009 Author Posted February 9, 2009 She is insecure but doesn't know what she's insecure about? Well, normally females tend to be insecure of their physical features. true. thanks shy =) Sounds like BS. I mean, she either doesn't feel comfortable about her physical appearance, or she may have trust issues as far as your relationship is concerned. Her answer was vague as hell. i hear yah. thanks pretty =)
carhill Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 OP, I spent a lifetime pondering such issues. Answer? Not my problem The next thing she'll say is that she wants to break up and find herself and it's not you; it's her. She's right
LovieDove24 Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Your g/f might be insecure about feeling vulnerable. When someone, this includes men and women, enter into a relationship, they open themselves up to the potential of a world of love and caring, AND a world of pain and hurting. Yes and the fear of being hurt is the blanket covering all other insecurities. People are afraid of abandonment, they are afraid they are not pretty enough, they are afraid they aren't intersting enough...and why? Because they dont want to be left, and in turn, hurt in love.
calazhage Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 I was talking to an ex of mine, and she told me if the guy seems to be too good of a catch, she runs. She just doesn't think a guy like that will stay with her.
confused_2008 Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 I was talking to an ex of mine, and she told me if the guy seems to be too good of a catch, she runs. She just doesn't think a guy like that will stay with her. Again, that's just an insecurity.
allieapplesauce Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Hmm, i agree wtih some of that...like the opening up and feeling vulnerable to get hurt...and not feeling interesting or worth it. i think im insecure and have trust issues b/c multiple guys i've dated (mroe than 5 months) have acted like i was the one, essentially...and then just upped and disappeared....so it's like they tell me they like me, want me to be their gf, they're not letting me ever get away yada yada...and next thing i know they are gone...so its hard to trust them. i think you just have to be totally honest wtih her....and your intentions. and follow through what you say with actions. and if things arent working out, dont leave her in the dust, have some balls and tell the girl where you stand.
BCCA Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 Sounds like BS. I mean, she either doesn't feel comfortable about her physical appearance, or she may have trust issues as far as your relationship is concerned. Her answer was vague as hell. I agree. It sounds like shes projecting problems a bit.
eclipseIDE Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 My ex of 9 years was insecure about me leaving her for someone else. She would ask me if she was prettier than our best friend who was like a sister to me . She would have a dream about me leaving her and then wake up sad and accuse me of wanting to leave her. Now the punch line She ended up leaving me for someone else. Women are mental
BCCA Posted February 10, 2009 Posted February 10, 2009 My ex of 9 years was insecure about me leaving her for someone else. She would ask me if she was prettier than our best friend who was like a sister to me . She would have a dream about me leaving her and then wake up sad and accuse me of wanting to leave her. Now the punch line She ended up leaving me for someone else. Women are mental Classic. 'I'm affraid you'll leave me before I leave you'.
Author loveinlife Posted February 10, 2009 Author Posted February 10, 2009 My ex of 9 years was insecure about me leaving her for someone else. She would ask me if she was prettier than our best friend who was like a sister to me . She would have a dream about me leaving her and then wake up sad and accuse me of wanting to leave her. Now the punch line She ended up leaving me for someone else. Women are mental seems to be the case. i think its a natural tendency of feeling vulnerable to be hurt by someone we love.
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